Afraid to tell your parents???what you have done wrong,,,

Philippines
October 26, 2010 10:43am CST
Have you experience second thoughts in saying some problems to your parents??? Because what we will expecting is..we will be scolded by them, and hear a non-stop preach by them. Afraid because they might hit you??? Afraid because they won't listen and not ready to hear some explanations from you. Here are just some things why a child is afraid to tell her/his problem. Do you have any idea what are the other things why are they afraid???in the first place they are the one who raised them...right???
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hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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27 Oct 10
i experienced this before esp when i kinda ruined my mom's phone. then i tried to fix it, but my bro came in and saw me sweating much. he tried to help me. good that it was fixed and i just told my mom what happened while giggling. hahaha
blackcloud
@blackcloud (97)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
kinda funny thing that happen to you,what if the phone of your mom haven't fixed by your brother???what would you do about it???hmmm....
Pinkie2011
@Pinkie2011 (64)
• United States
26 Oct 10
I had a problem with telling my mom something i thought i had done wrong when i was a little girl.It turns out she wasnt mad at me.She said i had done nothing wrong.To this day i still blame myself for what happened though.:(
blackcloud
@blackcloud (97)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
Why???what's the thing happened back then why haven't you told your mother??
CSHINE
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
27 Oct 10
Dear friend, Many of them are there, when I was in college I used to bunk or do not attend classes which I never used to tell to parents. Later when I got a job my mistakes became less. As my father is bit strict I was afraid to say my mistakes.
Sanitary
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
27 Oct 10
U are right. Even though they are our parents and they raise us up, but being kids, we tend to be more timid. After all, it's the first lesson we learnt from our mistake that makes us afraid of telling the truth. It's actually a way to protect ourself? Parents are parents, they want to show their authority in front of us and so they scold, cane and beat us, in the name of love. That's acceptable as long as parents knows their limits because kids are rebellious at times. The more we are being scolded or beaten, the more likely we will carry on lying because telling the truth does not make our punishment any lighter.
saqi78
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 10
Actually I ll afraid, but I ll tell them with explanations. And for this I ll choose appropriate time when they are in good mood and I ll defenitly know that they ll not say any thing to me...:) If I hide from them or dont tell them then it is again a guilt and one day they ll come to know about this, so best way is to tell them on appropriate time... Have a good day....
gegett2002
@gegett2002 (22)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
You should not be afraid because it will reflect you being dishonest. No matter what the outcomes are, it still pays to be honest.
joey_matthews
@joey_matthews (8354)
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26 Oct 10
When i was younger i was afraid to tell my parents some things. When i got abit older i noticed i could tell my mum things more than my dad, so i was telling my mum things and either she could tell my dad or i'd prefer if she didnt. I'm sure my kids will be the same when they are abit older as they are only young at the moment.