Forbidden Love

By Toni
@toniganzon (72279)
Philippines
October 26, 2010 11:06am CST
A friend confessed he got attracted to someone online without his wife knowing it. This girl is much older actually but according to him he was really hot. He even said that it was just more than an attraction as he seemed to be fascinated by his wit and charm. So now she's not only hot and beautiful, but pretty smart as well. I told him that he's cheating on his wife but he wouldn't admit to it, telling me there's no way it's gonna happen coz she lives miles aways. Far beyond his reach!
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
7 May 16
The world is a small place and does take long to fly, I went all the was to CA, 10 hour flight to be with someone I loved.
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@kevin1877uk (36988)
8 May 16
@toniganzon That is true there isn't
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
8 May 16
@kevin1877uk yes and you're the living example of that. now i can use you as evidence when i argue with my friends.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
8 May 16
with love, there's no such thing as distance.
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@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
We could at times be unfaithful. Much more there is temptation when we are away with the people we love. But there really is something that sparks when we get to have the chance of meeting the one we truly love. We can't tell if it's in the mind or it's in the heart. But that spark truly is the reason why, even we are attracted with another, we still stick with that special someone.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
You got some point there, my friend. Attraction is just a mere attraction, it's all in the physics, science! But Love is something unfathomable, cannot be explained at all.
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I would consider it cheating if they already had developed mutual love already. It is not wrong for us to admire other people even if they are already married. these are the things he wanted for his wife to be maybe. But it doesn't really mean he is already unfaithful to his wife. Taking another step aside from chatting online will give them both the chance to cheat if they have already done that or actually just plan the meeting alone.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
He told me there's no plan of meeting each other and that what they have is something that is kind of a dream or fantasy and it makes him feel better. He even tried to reason out that he just want to spice up what he have with his wife, since it's been pretty boring lately. I am uncertain about this, but he said i should trust him as we are friends!
@genevy04 (793)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I think you could expect men to say that they are not cheating since they haven't even done anything worth to be called 'cheating'. but as a woman, I guess what he is doing is cheating already. It is obvious that he is putting his interest already with that woman, and it's not right that he lets the feelings he has for the woman grow and grow, because he is married, and he knows it is wrong. He may not see anything wrong about it, but there is something wrong about it. And it's him. It's what he's doing.
• Canada
26 Oct 10
I believe he is cheating on his wife. What will he do if one day his email says "I am in town this weekend for a trip, meet me at my hotel"? If he carried on with the affair over the internet the temptation will be too much and he will go cheat physically. If he has honor and love for his wife he will end it.
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 10
however, eventhough that older girl live far beyond his reach. but once, a man try to flirting someone else. then, it will be usual for him to do it again with another person who's in the same town with him. it is a bad sign that can start with a real affair with another woman. he try to cheat his wife, but he doesnt know how it feel if his wife's cheating him. maybe he will be sorry someday if he's the only one who is cheated by his wife. he donest thank God for the bless to have his wife. hmmmm, i really dont like a guy like that. he is not a gentleman at all.