Should I give up?
By enruschew
@enruschew (247)
Malaysia
October 26, 2010 4:55pm CST
Guys, if there is someone that you love so much and you and the one that you love had progress more (dating) and suddenly one day she just came to you and told you that "we are impossible", is there any reason(s) that causes that girl behave like this? I just don't understand why and the reason that she gave was that she just want to maintain as friend. I'm totally blur and cannot accept the truth that she had gone. And now I do not know what to do and I'm still thinking about her everyday; the bad thing is that I still got to face her everyday in class. It's really breaking my heart that she behave like nothing happen before.
So should I give up? Is there any ways to stop me from thinking about her?
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5 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
You have to know the reason why she thinks it's impossible to happen. Don't give up just yet. You'll regret not trying to find out what it is.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 11
Hmm...you're right. But the decision is depends on her and now, she said she do not want to continue without giving me any reasons. Maybe it was like what I'd saw, she being together with other people.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
Well, whatever you think, you'll always be right, if you think about it.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 Nov 10
You should not give up on a relationship unless it is something you feel in your heart for yourself. A relationship isn't only one person. If you are committed and believe the love is there between you, don't give up the relationship without giving it all you've got.@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 11
Thank you so much sender, thank you. I think I really need to give up. The reason is that I'm being betrayed. I'm a bit confuse now; I felt myself like a fool, treated by a girl. This feeling is just so bad. However, thank you so much...
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
10 Nov 10
Well ask yourself, is your heart wants to give up, if no..then never give up. Temporary breakups are common in love, but it heals off soon, when one is strong to fix it, so you be strong and get her back in your life.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 11
Thank you besthope44. I think I need to give up. As I'd saw, she's together with another guy; whom used to be my friend. I erm... I need to give up. Thank you so much.
@asendud (318)
• Indonesia
6 Nov 10
i can try to get other girl. my friend jut like you. he love so much her girlfriend but his girlfriend stop that's relation. and then my friend so depressed. after that's my other friend give him a call number of one girl. and then after that he close with that new girl and they make a relation. and it has survived until now.
try it.
@enruschew (247)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 11
Hey asendud, thanks for your suggestion. Well...I did that before; I tried to reach for other girls and at first, I taught that I'm in love with one of the girl but later I realized that I'm lying to myself. How come I'm so stubborn in love?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Oct 10
The only thing you can do is allow time and or another love interest to truly be rid of feelings for this person. You cannot force the situation and perhaps with time she may feel differently but will this be okay for you to wait. I would say no, although love is not something you can simply forget my best advice is to keep busy with some thing and or do different things to keep your mind pre-occupied.
Sometimes it is hard to get rid of the feelings but outside of her saying she wants to remain friends there is nothing you can do other than remain friends and or try and go your separate way. Good luck you.
