Career or love life???

Philippines
October 27, 2010 1:50am CST
Which would you choose among those two???If you will land a great opportunity to your career but it will really hit or affect your love life,what will you do about it???specially when your status in life is really not good,would you go and set aside your feelings first??? How would you do it?? How will you deal with it???
7 responses
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I'll choose career first. That's the best decision one will make. I know love is wonderful, but it is not permanent. You may never know love will leave you and you have nothing else in your pocket. So be wise. Career is definitely a good choice. I was broken up by my boyfriend 2 weeks ago but I am still happy. I am a professional and I don't want my love life ruin my opportunities in life. Set those feelings aside and straighten out your priorities. Weigh the benefits you'll get from the two and choose the one that weighs more.
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
Why does your boyfriend broke-up with you,while you have a great career in life???does he bother you??
• India
27 Oct 10
career career career if you are successful , any girl will be attracted automatically towards you . This is what i have experienced.
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I will have to choose my career. At least with this, I can give an assurance to my future family that we will be in a good condition. Not that I am selfish, but this is selflessness. This is sacrifice. And that your partner should also consider. This is for the benefit of both and the future. If your partner truly loves you, she can wait. After all we can't hurry love. Love is patience.
@hushi22 (4928)
27 Oct 10
i think i already choose love life because for two times i resigned from my work just to be with him even if he didnt ask me to
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
i can balance both my career and love life. if you can manage the situation you dont have to give up any of the two.
@cyrri_ako (461)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
if i was much younger, i would probably choose career..coz i know that love can wait... but if i would be in the early or late 30's, i would definitely choose love. having babies and being with the one you love can bring you so much joy..like you've been promoted to the highest promotion ! :-)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
well, if that would be the case. i would prefer to choose the opportunity in my career. this will help my family's status in life. and since family first, sacrifice and set aside your own happiness. love can wait, and it is truly worth it. just learn to manage both, love and career. but if you will have a partner that is understanding then you are lucky enough to have a good life. happiness with both love and career and also your family. :)