is your lover the best lover you could find?^^

cute dance^^ - boy and girl in love dancing^^
Portugal
October 29, 2010 9:56am CST
hi guys^^ is your lover the best lover you could find?^^ about me i would like to say that my bf is the best ever but sadly he doesnt have much space for me in his life. i dont want to find better than him bcs i love him. but makes me sad that he acts like that anyway he is sweet and caring and honest so he has good qualities^^ only problem is time. he doesnt have time for me so :( anyway what about you guys?^^ is your lover the best lover you could find? please share^^
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
My bf may not be the best in the world that i could find, i know there are a lot more better than him. He has his imperfections too but for me he will be the only one, no matter how imperfect he may be. He is the best lover i have and will ever have..
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
i dont think there is better than him^^ he loves you so much right?^^ so thats the best you can find^^ if he loves you the best you can find is only guys that just like him love their gfs so much^^ the best we can find is a guy that loves us more than everything^^ we all deserve a guy like that^^ im happy that you love your bf so much^^ i wish that my bf loved me as much as yours loves you im so sad :(
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
1 Nov 10
Ow..don't be sad. Your bf loves you, sometime they are just not too showy with their real feelings. Just wait and time will come when you will be together again, you will see how he really loves you. Now im having second thoughts if i will ever reply to your posts again coz im making you feel sad everytime i reply . Just have faith and you will see and feel real happiness ;)
• Portugal
1 Nov 10
no sweetie^^ always reply my topics^^ im very happy^^ that way you also help me^^ i love when you share things about your bf^^ about mine yes today he showed he loved me^^ when he is about to lose me love always speaks louder^^ he said so cute things and even called me but i couldnt pick up. but is ok we will today at 3 pm today in pinas^^ at least i will wait him^^
29 Oct 10
People need the time together, again, time apart is not good for a relationship, you have yet to actually meet your boyfriend in person. Maybe there is better out there, someone who will dedicate more time to you and actually see you in person. I still am single so i can't answer this discusion for myself really.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes i understand that i should find a guy here. but i love him. and i feel he loves me too. just sometimes i feel that im more in a rush to meet him than him to meet me. i dont know i like to think that when a boy loves a girl even if are far away he fights to go see her soon but i dont see him like that. i know is hard to find a job in his country but when he came online could work here in mylot a bit even but till now only 6 comments he made. that doesnt help us
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes craigy. i know what you mean i really didnt want to let him go but maybe i will have to. he never has time for me. friday didnt came when i messaged him for us to talk for awhile. and yesterday didnt come online and today is the same thing. i cant take that he never has space for me. he makes me feel sometimes that im always what he does when doesnt have nothing to do. i dont want to be that for him this time is up to him. or cares but really cares or i leave him. i wont be hurt anymore.
29 Oct 10
im glad that you see that you are the one that really is trying, especially more than he is, i feel you can do much better but that is your choice.
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
Thank goodness I'm very happy with my husband. Imagine if I wasn't and I tell you that here.I'll be in trouble! Anyway, my husband is the best lover I could find. He's not just the most loving partner, he's also the most loving and hands-on dad to our little baby. I love him to bits.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
ahah if you said you are not he could see? does he work here in mylot too?^^ ahah yes if he does better you dont say ahah^^ anyway im happy that he is the best lover you can find^^ that means that he is good for you^^ im happy also that he takes good care of your baby too^^ im sure that he also loves you much^^ you deserve that^^
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
30 Oct 10
I', sorry I can't find a girls that is being a best lover...
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
I hope I can find a girl which love me as I am not love me because of something
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
from your ex gfs you didnt have one that was better than others?^^ maybe more sweet and that you loved more?^^ anyway i know that now you dont have a gf but im sure that soon you will find it^^ we all have someone meant for us^^ so for sure you also have a girl that is meant for you^^ and you will be too happy together^^ just wish you the best really^^
• China
30 Oct 10
hello friend. what do you think another man to you ? i don't think my lover is my est love. but human has his own feeling to one people after a long time living . then we consider him as our best lover. and cannot forget him forever. so this is life. but we can find other people is good to us. we just consider that they are the other parts of our life. so best lover is our lover if we don't change our life.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes thats true^^ our lover is the best one unless we change our life^^ sure we can find other people good to us but i wanted to be happy with my bf^^ but he is making things hard. he never has time for me and that is complicated. for us to be together was needed that he had more time for me. i understood him much but he also needs to understand me^^
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
fot at the moment,I love my boyfriend and I never think for find other the best of him.bcs I love him.He never make me sad even though we always quarrel.but we can handle what our problem.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
thats cute that for you he is the best^^ im happy that you love him^^ and is normal that sometimes you quarrel^^ that happens with all couples i guess^^ is good that you can handle your problems well^^ thats a good couple^^ that talk about your problems and solve things together^^ im very happy for you and your bf also^^ wish you the best^^
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Oct 10
We can't choose who we will fall in love with., it just happens. We always want our lover to be the best lover we have had. sometimes we are pleasntly surprised with what we have. We don't always have to have satisfaction to have the best lover.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes thats true that we dont choose it happens i know^^ but would be good that we had one that at least loved us much and cared always right?^^ and sure sometimes we are happy with what we have^^ and couldnt be happier^^ i love my bf but i just wish he could care more than what he does. you understand? just i wanted that he tried to work even here to come and see me you know? but sometimes seems he isnt motivated by that
• India
29 Oct 10
Well yes I think cannot find a better lover than this as she is caring ,loving,romantic and who loves me more than anyone in this world....
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
you are lucky to have a gf that loves you more than everything^^ thats too cute really^^ and if she is caring and romantic you cant find better really^^ at least you know for sure that she loves you^^ is hard to know for sure that someone loves us and if you are sure thats great^^ you really are much lucky^^ keep her well ok?^^ and care always^^
• India
30 Oct 10
well, it is like that only. Everyone one believes that he or she has got the best lover in this world. And this is the power of love
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
yes thats true^^ everyone always thinks that their lover is the best in the world^^ when you are happy with your lover^^ but me and my bf we are not happy. at least im not happy. he doesnt have time for me never. i always give him my time for anything he needs. but he doesnt do the same for me. i wish that he also could try hard for us to meet soon but he doesnt
@ipenk1000 (207)
• Indonesia
30 Oct 10
trying to find..... people we love will always be loyal and there for us both hard and always happy to share
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
its ok^^ im sure that you can find it soon^^ and sure people that are our true loves will always be loyal and be there for us^^ and for sure will be happy to share things^^ is always important to share things with guy we care about^^ i love when me and my bf talk much^^ but he never has much time for me so is almost impossible that we can do that.
• China
30 Oct 10
Hi, i find the best lover i think,but can not get. In China the girl love money ,house,car more than the LOVE. SO IF you is a richer ,Y can have sevel wives. If not , you just sing alone.
• Portugal
31 Oct 10
im sorry for that but if you are poor maybe things can change if you find a better job^^ also if girls just care for money they dont interest you^^ girls that care for money only dont love the guy. so you dont need a girl like that^^ you need a girl that you love and that loves you^^ and if you are not happy in china try to go to other country^^ like an european one or to usa^^ there you have better opportunities^^