So why do people think that it is alright to judge?

i dont like to judge others^^ im not remembering a story now where i was accused of something i didnt do. but when you said that we judge people for their kind of relationships i remembered for example gay that are judged for love people of same gender. or those that have an open relationship. we should respect them. gay are just like us. just like people of same gender. we also cant choose to be straight we are and is bcs we feel that^^ and they is the same thing. i was judged before bcs i liked a guy online. many people dont believe in long distance relationships and say that that isnt love. but is i know it is. we shouldnt judge others but respect that we all have differences and is better this way^^ if we were all the same would be boring^^ we should like these differences and respect^^

It is like the old phrase you just never know what you are going to get, unless you try it first. I know people who do judge right off the bat and it is unfortunate as we all have good and bad days. It is getting to the root that makes for a great time and or encounter of any form of relationships.

There are just people in this world that think they know what is right for everyone else. they may not see anything wrong with judging others. I feel you really have to know someone before you have the right to judge them. Even then you may not deserve that right.

Majority of us likes to judge but hate to be judged. We like to pin point the faults of others but we refuse to admit our own mistakes. It's perhaps our nature? All of us have been judged in some way or other just that we are not aware. So long as we are doing the right things, helping those who we think needs help, why bother about how others judge us? Whatever they see might not be the truth, if they insist on believing their own eyes, I can only say they are so shallow.

I agree we are civilized people now a days and still judge everyone no matter if its on their appearance or attitude or where they came from. From me I'm always constantly judge because of the way I look or the things I do when I was a teenager. This really sucks because it hampers me on finding good work or something but I' a good person and and really good worker but because I'm small and have a shaved head and a few tats people don't ever take me seriously or are intimidating. If people would give me a chance instead of judging me on my appearance then they would see how good of a guy I really am.

sometimes i was almost the same as what you tell me, but i am thankful through it all i can learn to be better... before making a decision we have to see the truth of each incident..for that decision is really just all the people

Everyone tends to judge others for not being like them and for being different. Alot of people judge others and pick on them for being different and this makes problems in life because then people don't get on and argue. I don't get on with everyone myself but no one does, but i do respect others that respect me and try not to judge them without a reason.