Have you fallen in love with your best friend?

yes it happened to me...the only guy that I actually loved for real was my best friend. I feel sorry kind of for the decision that we made ( for us to try to have a relationship) because we ruined our friendship and now we don't talk to each other anymore. I remember the first time that he kissed me was like will you allow me to do something? I'm really afraid I might lose my best friend...and sadly he was right. things ended up badly and now we don;t talk to each other anymore as I said

They say that it's good to marry someone who knew you so well. Much more when he/she is a very good friend of yours. As to your query of having fallen in love with a best friend. Well, during my younger days, I had this big crush on my best friend but I just couldn't picture ourselves being more than just good friends. Hence, he wasn't aware of my feelings for him and it pained me to see him court another friend although I learned later that he too had a crush on me. My fault though because it was I who kept on pushing him to court another friend when he started showing signs that he was interested in me. Well probably we were destined not to be more than friends. So it was just a crush and nothing more. This just made me smile when I reminisced of the past.