Long Distance Relationship
By mae_dyrish
@mae_dyrish (237)
Philippines
November 3, 2010 3:10am CST
I am really disturb why some long distance relationship usually did not work. I have known two of my colleagues who happened to be in the same situation. The guy left the country to work and save for the promised to my friend, but after two times of leaving the country, here comes my friend almost dying of pain knowing that the guy will be coming home to marry another girl. Well, maybe that is their fate. Another situation is like this. This couple are married for 7 years, having been in the recession turmoil, the guy forced to live to be able to provide good future to their only child. But after only 4 years being apart, her husband confided to his wife that he had a relationship with another woman in the same company and have a child already.
Now, i am confused, are people really week of temptation of it is their foundation of relationship? Can there be really a strategy to strengthen the relationship of being apart?
For my opinion, long distance relationship is a big gap to the two lovers and it really ruin each other. It is not good to both couples because other says it strengthen their loves, if you were into this relationship but for me it is not, having a long distance relationship breaks the chances of two lovers to know more each other, lack of showing how they love their partners in person. We are longing to be with are partners physically and if this will happen i guess it would work. Physically attached makes more relationship to work and healthy and stronger each day. I know their are lots of technologies there that help us to communicate them everyday, but nothing can change our feelings if we have our partners right beside us. It is a different feeling to see them personally and touch them.
4 responses
@Ritmon (118)
•
20 Nov 10
Sometimes We see in life a boy and a girl love each other from a distance....but love is love no one can't bound it in time and distance....if a long distance separate two lovers,in that case the deepness of love will be not like others love,its different.......can you feel that love?????
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
4 Nov 10
Just like the instance you listed above, a long relationship just won't work. People separate in two places, and from time, their love might deteriorated, and they won't no longer love each other that much. So, regard this as a life time example.
@tyra005 (151)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
hello currently i want to tell you that i am on a long distance relationship with my foreign boyfriend, we are together for almost 2 years. our relationship since it was started we are far from each other but we are trying to find our way just to see each other so i guess this is hard but it will test the true relationship with him.
