do you believe your relation can last forever?^^

true love^^ - boy and girl happy in love^^
Portugal
November 3, 2010 5:58pm CST
hi guys^^ do you believe your relation can last forever?^^ about me i dont know. things are not good right now. so i dont know what will happen. that will only depends in what he does for now. i already did too much and i will still do if he does too. if he doesnt i cant do nothing else. a relation is about two and not one =) anyway i wish it can last forever if he cares and loves me^^ what about you guys? do you believe it can last forever? i wish you guys have a good relation always^^
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• Philippines
3 Nov 10
I can not really tell what the future holds for us. I will just leave it up to God. However, I am claiming that our love will last us a lifetime. Right now, it may be too early to tell but we both want that to happen, and that thought is enough to put my mind and heart at ease. ^__^
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes sure^^ but is good that your love can last for long time. sure is early to say bcs you are young yet right? for the way you talk seems you are already young so sure a lot can still happen in your life^^ what matters is that you and him feel happy^^ if he loves and cares for you then all can be ok^^ as long as you are honest and caring :)
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• China
4 Nov 10
I hope that I would ,but I think it would not happen
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thanks so much^^ you are very sweet too yes sure is late for you you need to sleep. yes i see that you are a new guy here^^ and im happy that someone like you came to mylot^^ sure sure you can tell me your story later i will sure love to listen. dont need thank me i am the one thanking you for answering my discussion^^ sweet dreams^^
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
why? is it something wrong? im sorry if something is going bad if you need to talk about your relation you can talk with me. i would like to listen your story and your problems^^ also maybe i can advise you :) it seems that you are hurt bcs love so i can at least listen to you^^ and try to tell you what to do to make things better^^
• China
4 Nov 10
You are so sweet,but it is 3:22am for me,I should go to sleep As you see I am a new guy here,I will tell the story later ,thinks
• United States
4 Nov 10
It might, it might not. I can't tell the future so I don't try to and I don't dwell on it. I live day by day and do what I can, but if something happens in the future then I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.
• United States
4 Nov 10
Things are great right now, I just don't read the future nor do I try to. If we stay together, then we stay together. If something happens, then so be it. I don't pretend to guess what the outcome will be, I just live day to day. I'm not sure I understand what you mean by saying that we are young yet to save for the future?
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes but your bf is with you^^ and loves you^^ so i dont think that he will leave you :) sure that i know if he leave you can be on your own. you are a decided woman i know but that wont happen. i know that he loves you and will do all for you guys to have a good life. also you both are young yet so can still save money for your future together ^^
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thats great that all is going well with you and your bf^^ sure i see that you prefer things happen slowly without make predictions^^ i meant that you and him still have time to save money to have a better life with good vacations and not worry so much with bills. bcs i remember you said before that you and him have money probs and that you couldnt afford to have a good honeymoon. so i meant that im sure time will help you save more and then you will have a good vacations and fun time with him^^
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
4 Nov 10
I was fall in love with one of my batch-mates in 2004, it was my first affair and i was then 20 yrs old boy! I couldn't hold her because she betrayed me excusing that I don't touch her.. Umm.. I remember, I was then too young in mentality to be adopted with such stuffs. Anyway, after loosing her, I felt that I could b with her forever if I were more matured. Huh.. Shortly after the break up, I was engaged with another of my friends from 2005 & its nice to let u know that still now I've the relationship. I've just completed my graduation from Electrical and Electronic Engineering and she is still studying in a Medical College. After her Internship, I expect, after 3 years, we'll b married! Yeah. I believe a life-long relationship is really possible while commitment from both sides remains. I feel it whenever I can see that I'm unemployed still now but she cares me and supports me from all of my anxieties about our future! I lost my first relationship but I dont wana loose my present one. Thats my spirit. Regards!
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
4 Nov 10
Umm.. I've completed my bachelor degree in EEE. Yeah, call center profession may b a good one financially but i'm looking for a core technical work (preferably in power plant, sub station, motor/ generator manufacturing company..). Lets see what happens! TC.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
sorry that you lost that girl. but now you found one that loves you and you love also^^ im sure that all can be ok. you say that she supports you even you dont have a job right? so is all ok. it just means that she understands you. you can find a job soon even if isnt in what you graduated :) but with your diploma maybe you can work in a company^^ you can start being like a call center agent and when they see your studies maybe they give you a better work^^ why dont you try? in call center agencies is usually easy to find a job.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes i see that you want to do a job that you like first :) yes sure just wait to see if they accept you. start to search in newspaper and online also. maybe you can find some company that needs someone to work for them ^^ but if you cant find you can work in a call center for awhile only to save money to your future with your gf^^ and then you can find one that you like :) take care too^^
@Fireheart (683)
• India
4 Nov 10
i never believe in something that can change at any time, at any time anything can happen so its difficult to say, i wont mind if the relation lasts a bit more, specially if am in love and share rest of my life with her, it depends. but sometimes i wish something bad should not happen between in our relationship. everything fate i believe and people cant change its happening only make little difference in direction it goes, some can be good and some are not, i hope everything for better .
• India
5 Nov 10
still doubts regarding that i love her or not. dont know what to do. and i have said these things too, she said she can wait for me.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes i understand^^ you believe that in love things can change suddenly. of course you dont mind if the relation lasts bcs you love her :) is normal that you dont want that bad things happen between you and her =) sure that some changes are for good and others are for bad but lets wish that all goes as you want^^ by the way that girl is your gf already? but didnt you say you didnt love her?
@Mitica8 (48)
• Italy
4 Nov 10
i don't know it! but as it is said; "love is beautiful until it last". so i'm decided to enjoy it. Of course, my hope is "love forever".
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes love is beautiful until it last^^ thats true. sure we all should enjoy love^^ we all want a relation to last forever but sometimes that doesnt happen. sometimes people are too busy to value love. and then they just value when they lose it. i really wish that your love can last^^ you seem a sweet person and deserve to be happy^^ wish you the best :)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thanks so much for agree with me :) i guess that we all deserve to be happy and have a good love life^^ with someone that really loves and care for us^^ we all deserve that for sure^^ if we dont have that then it isnt a true love. is only one person doing everything. a true love is two people doing things to make the relation work. i wish that you and your bf can be like that to each other^^ * welcome to mylot^^ try to write at least 5 lines in each comment you make so you get paid 1 cent for sure*
• Italy
4 Nov 10
yes, you're right, I agree with you, too
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 10
If you are fated to be with your present love, I am confident that you will walk down the isle one day and be together for life. But if he is not meant to be yours, then be prepared to face the challenges ahead of you. Breaking up is painful. No, I don't believe relationship last forever. However, it takes two people to work hard on a relationship to bullet proof it from destruction.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes if i am meant to be with my bf i know that we will be together. sure that break up is painful but being in a relation that you are fighting alone is worse. im like a crazy finding ways to save money to go see him. i need money to help my mum and to save to travel to see him and he is always busy. i believe that relations can last forever if both fight. but if is only one it wont work.
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
15 Jan 11
yea..of course! my gf asked me for being married but that time I was just completed my grad & looking for a job. now i do a job & will b married after two months. by the way, we also had physical relationship several times & no question was arisen as the strength of our affair is still going upwards!
@minhaj09 (236)
• Bangladesh
15 Jan 11
eww.. i've already answered u my friend! yeah.. i've recently got a job and now planning to be married soon.. pray for us!
@gunjanpri (603)
• India
4 Nov 10
I guess no way. I loved a man and married him. Now he is no more in love with me. We just live together for our child, because he thinks I can not take care of her.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
im sorry that you and your hubby are not happy anymore :( but you should get divorced. why be together just bcs of your child? you can try to find a job to show him that you can take good care of her. he cant just be with you bcs of kids. thats a nonsense. you should ask him the divorce so you can find a guy that loves you and with whom you can be happy^^
@gusto84 (237)
• Italy
4 Nov 10
Yes , a relation can lass forever . No matter what relation it is , friendship or any other . It is allso easy to loose one pretty fast or after a long period , the long lastin relationships has their beauty in this that they're pretty rare concept in this full of lies reality that we al exist in .
@gusto84 (237)
• Italy
5 Nov 10
That's right , and if you insist in your reserch of your friendly sole mate , eventually you might find it . And if you do , you must realise what you have found and try to keep it close and apreciate every moment of it ... and that's what i call happines ;) . I wish you all the best , and happy myLotting .
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i agree with you^^ is true that any relation can last as long as there is truth on it^^ sure is easy to lose if you dont care or if you do something wrong. is true that lasting relations are rare and sure they are beautiful^^ is true that sadly in this world there are many lies :( that way sure is very complicated that we can be happy completely. we can be if find the right person^^
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
Hi sweetloveforeve! I don't know... Maybe with others,but not with me. I've been in numerous failed relationship,and now I'm quite feeling that I cannot be able to have a long lasting relationship. Been bitter after my last relationship.. And looks like,I wouldn't be ready to commit again... :(
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
sorry auds =( sometimes things go wrong and we feel that we wont love again. but dont worry you will. we all have someone meant for us. you also have a cute guy right there waiting for you. sometimes it takes awhile till he appears but if we fight that can happen :) dont think negative and for now just let things happen^^ the guy will appear in your life soon^^
4 Nov 10
im still single so hope that that doesn't last forever, lol. I am glad you see a relationship is based on 2 people and not 1. It is so easy for some people to say "i love you", but if they trully did then they would show it, often. Your boyfriend that is supposed to love you does nothing to try and earn money, this means that it will take longer for you to see him. You work hard to earn money but he doesn't, it is just you, not him. Yes ok he is busy, so are you, but you find time to earn on here and other places, you know that he uses the computer to chat to friends, if he loved you so much then he would be on here or other places trying to earn money to see you.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes craigy. i know that. like today he came online and after two days of not talking with me he sent me one little message with only one line and few words. he comment his friends sure and didnt come here to mylot. even one comment would be a help but he doesnt think in that. i dont need to tell him to care. no one needed to say catarina you need to work in sites to save to see your bf. no one said so. bcs if i want something i need to do sacrifices. but he doesnt see that. is only me that has to understand him but he doesnt need to. anyway i promised myself if tomorrow he doesnt message me i let him go. i did much already and i just cant be with a guy that talks with me so rare. thats not a relation. about you dont be single im sure that soon you find the right girl dont worry^^
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
ive always hoped it would, but i dont believe it will... i dont know but maybe things will still change. you know how it goes between me and him sweetie. as far as today is concerned, considering his efforts and mine i think we can work on it. reality is too far from how i wish it would turn out to be.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
im sorry for that nik i know that is complicated your situation but at least you both are trying to make things work. my bf today just sent me a little message after two days that we didnt talk. i see that this isnt going nowhere. i sent him a message asking him for everyday send me a message. but i promised to myself that if tomorrow he doesnt send me any message i will give up. doesnt make sense that i work so much to go see him when he is only worrying with his things. if he doesnt show he cares tomorrow i let him go.
• United States
4 Nov 10
yes i do believe things can last forever if there is a want for the two people to make it last. but that takes time and effort on both sides.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i totally agree with you^^ is needed two people to make the efforts. if that doesnt happen then isnt possible that it works. cant be only one doing everything. i learnt that already. even if will be hard for me i wont say nothing more to my bf. if he cares he has to show that. bcs me i wont be after him for him to care. is his decision to fight for me or let me go.
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• India
17 Mar 11
Whether the relation will last or not depends on the mutual understanding sharing and tolerance. It has its dividend and price both. So you have to feel that and act accordingly.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
4 Nov 10
i believe that my relationship with my hubby can last forever as long as we respect and trust each other... there is a saying that says that "it takes two to tango"... so i believe that for a relationship to work and last forever, the efforts have to come from two people... and not just one... take care and have a nice day...
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
thats cute that your relation can last forever^^ is true that a relation need respect and trust to work well^^ i like your expression. for sure for it to work is needed that both show love and care. if is only one is impossible to be happy. no one is happy if is the only one caring. anyway i wish that people started to value love more. sometimes they put other things first and lose a good chance to be happy. have a nice day too^^
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4 Nov 10
I think it can last forever, but it still depends how you both approach the relationship. I do think that all relationships have ups and downs and alot of arguments but if you are going to last, you should be able to get through anything together. I hope my relationship lasts forever and yours too. I've been with my wife for years now and i wouldn't ever dream of leaving her.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes joey ^^ is important to be on things together ^^ sure is normal that there are ups and downs but as long as fight is all ok. i know that your relation can last forever bcs you really care and love your wife^^ but me my bf is always busy with his family. and me he doesnt have time or space for me. i dont want a guy that rarely says he loves me. like two days he didnt talk with me and today sent me a little message with only one line and few more words. if he loved me really really he would find even 5 minutes for me. everyday and not 2 minutes to write me a little message after two days we didnt talk.. im happy that you wont leave her^^ and im sure she wont leave you too^^ all girls dream with a caring and sweet guy like you^^ wish you the best really^^
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• Philippines
4 Nov 10
i believe a relationship could last forever. as long as both believes in each other and that trust (the most important) is still there. in a relationship sacrifice is the major factor. but if someone gives up it would end.
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i agree with you^^ a relation can last forever^^ trust is needed sure and also sacrifice. but both need to do that and not only one. sure if someone gives up it ends so we should always see what we do before do. we shouldnt let a love go away if we feel that that person is the right one for us^^ about me i always fight till there is nothing else i can do.
@asendud (318)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 10
yes, i like the your way of thinking. a relation is about two and not one. i have a girlfriend i love him, I do many things for her, but i still don't sure about her. he is cute, but . . . just doesn't sure.. she tell she love me, but she always selfish.. maybe my relation will not stay longer..
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes bcs is true^^ sacrifices and showing love is needed to be done by the two people and not only one. that isnt love then. that is one doing all and the other one is just receiving love but not giving. if your gf tells you that she loves you is bcs maybe she does but why do you say she is selfish? what does she do? im sorry that you think it wont work. but if you feel that something is wrong you should talk with her and tell what you think^^
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@akari77 (123)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
hello. well from my previous experiences, i may say that i don't. But still don't remove the possibility that there is a relation that can. who knows. :)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
yes for sure you will find a guy that will love you much^^ is normal that you had bad love experiences but that doesnt mean will be always like that. im sure that things can be good when you find the right guy^^ dont worry we all have someone for each other so im sure that you will find and be happy always^^ you seem a sweet girl so you deserve that^^
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
As much as we would like it to last forever, it just won't sometimes. It's either we or the other party fall short, miss things, misread things, misinterpret words and hurt each other. The pain sometimes is just unbearable and we hastily do things that we would regret later that lead to more unpleasant situations. It's good to hear that you have done your part of the relationship Sweet, but maybe he just needs time or maybe you should just give him reasons to think twice about leaving you. I mean, you're gorgeous. He doesn't know your cards in hand, maybe you could bluff? like in poker..lol. Seriously, make him feel uneasy, quite unimportant, make him think twice about himself and in no time, you'll find him scurrying back to you. lol. He's one lucky guy, I might add. Like I said you're gorgeous, keep it that way. Keep safe always Sweetlove...sweetest day..
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
your comment made me cheer up ahah thats so cute what you said^^ thanks for making me feel better^^ yes i did all i could. but i cant do nothing anymore. i guess i have to leave him till he put in his head what he really needs in his life. he just care for his family always. if he loved me he would care for me always. he doesnt want me to leave him or i mean he cant break up with me never but why will i stay with him if is me mostly showing love and care? i also need that. thats the meaning of love. words mean nothing without actions. you are right saying that i shouldnt pay him attention. i will do that. im sick of being always the sweet girl that always ignores everything and continue sweet. if he wants me now he will have to make efforts and if doesnt is the end. im starting in a good way right?^^ ahah thanks for say he is a lucky guy but i guess he doesnt see that. maybe he will see when feels he is losing me. keep safe too^^ and have a very sweet day^^
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