Try my best don't fall in love with her!

China
November 3, 2010 9:27pm CST
I don't know why I am easily fall in love with a girl. especially a girl with different character, I will much easily indulge in her and fall in love with her. but if she know I already loved her she will very proud of herself. and play the feeling game, I mean: because I love her so she will don't meet me and let me feel down and then she will make me happy again but after sometime she also make me feel bad. I don't want me be controlled by her. I like a basketball be played by the girl that I love. so some time I try my best don't love her forever. but its really very hard I will love her again no long time, because I hate this girl but I love her more. what should I do.
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• Philippines
4 Nov 10
But the question is, is it really love, or just an infatuation? Because real love takes time to develop. It grows upon knowing the person fully through constant interaction. Infatuation, on the other hand, is a very strong emotion that fades with time. It is often uncontrollable and like many strong emotions is very volatile. So my friend, think carefully, is that feeling really love? If it is, not I advise you to follow your heart and be persistent. That is the only way that you can soften her heart. Show her your best side and prove to her that you have pure intentions and that she deserves you as much as you deserve her. However, if you realize, it's just an infatuation, the best thing to do is get over it and move on. I'm sure there are ladies there who would feel lucky to have your love. Good luck!
• China
4 Nov 10
I am still young. I don't know much about real love, I just want together with her, I want marry her. I want do every thing she want, I want to sacrifice if she give me a litter love!
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
If you can't control it then probably you're just so into her. If she hurts you, for a moment you want to hate her, but if she begs, you easily forgives. I've been through this situation exactly and i don't know exactly what to do with that emotion. If you have any plans to let her go then you should be firm in not seeing or talking to her anymore.
• China
4 Nov 10
so as my words I try to do the most hating. but when she back I will tell me!@*&^ I can't be heartless. she is my love!!!!!!!@#$%^&HOW...HOW!!!
• United States
4 Nov 10
Falling in love is sort uncontrollable as the heart is the one in command. You say you fell in love with her so no problem just go with your heart. However if you find that she is not the type of girl you truly want to associate with her then you will have to allow time and space to begin to allow the heart to heal. However if it is her character that you are worried about I find you will not be able to do much about that as she is in control of her character and although she may attempt to make changes she truly will not be able to fully change as no one changes because another wants us to, but rather because we want to. Good luck I hope it works and if not allow some time to heal.
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• China
4 Nov 10
I also think that time will give me an answer. the wave of this feeling seriously affect my work. I can't get rid of my eyes always note on her!!!
@chhetp1 (467)
• India
4 Nov 10
Hi!! I don't see the reason why you should be worried. This is the normal human tendency of falling in love with someone unique. But when you know that the lady of your choice is playing with your emotions, you better be prepared. I know that it is too difficult, especially for someone who loves passionately. Still there is your analytical mind inside you. Just try to be logical, though sometime logic falls in the trap of emotion. I am sure you would need to be stronger and let Your love go. If your love comes back she is yours.. if she doesn't come back she was never yours!!!!
• China
4 Nov 10
yes I will keep myself calm and calm. don't let her know clearly about rhythm of my heart!
@Gargi2010 (638)
• India
4 Nov 10
Hi Please onething clear that you really love the girl or not ? sometimes there a genine problems so, she treat like this but love has very vast defination love is sarifies. and try to know the girl is also really loves u if yes then do the marriage with her i hope you will got life is very enjoyable for both of you. I also pray to God for your real love. Regards
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
I think you must not see her for a while he is just playing with you..she control you and i think he makes fun of you..try not to show your real feelings and try to ignore her..maybe she will realize your worth after doing that :)
• China
4 Nov 10
this is not easily!!
@shaggin (71678)
• United States
5 Nov 10
Thats hard when you try not to fall for someone and it happens anyway. Thats exactly what I am going through right now as well. I like this guy who I am never going to get any further with then I am right now. He doesnt want a relationship with me. It sucks dealing with that but oh well at least I get to spend time with him and hook up with him lol.