do you feel protected if your lover holds you tight?^^

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Portugal
November 4, 2010 6:21pm CST
hi guys^^ do you feel protected if your lover holds you tight? about me i cant feel that bcs my bf is too far from me. he lives very far so we couldnt hug each other never. only thing we could do was say sweet words to each other online and on the phone. anyway i guess that if he held me tight i would feel protected^^ i know that if i was near him he would protect me. he is very brave and isnt the kind of guy that is afraid of something. i just wish that he fought more to be with me as soon as possible. but i guess that that wont be possible unless something really tells him that if he loses me loses his happiness. i dont know.. anyway will just let things happen. i cant always be worried with what he doesnt do for me. will just dream that he be like in before and cares so much =) what about you guys? do you feel protected if your lover holds you tight? please share^^
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@asendud (318)
• Indonesia
4 Nov 10
I'm a guy, so i didn't feel protected, but i feel comfort when i with her, she make me happy. i often visit her i her home. but sad to you can't visit your bf because so far from you. hope you can meet he immediately.
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• Portugal
13 Nov 10
is good that you feel comfort^^ is great to know that she makes you happy^^ is good that you visit her often. we girls need to feel cared and loved^^ we are not together anymore bcs he was always busy. but maybe someday we be together again. he said he would wait me. and i trust him. maybe we can be when he helped his family already^^ thanks for your sweet wishes^^ wish you the best also^^
5 Nov 10
i always protect those that i both love and care for, this could be family, a partner or even friends. This is the type of person i am.
• Portugal
13 Nov 10
thats cute that you always protect people you care about^^ and sure we should protect friends too. and brothers or sisters or mothers. or any family member. is good that you are like that^^ but you seem a perfect guy always when i see your answers^^ what about bad side? you dont have? ahah thanks for being a sweet guy^^
• Portugal
17 Nov 10
ahah but thats not bad craigy ahah im sure that is something that you do that isnt so good. like if you are stubborn or too honest ahah i meant something like that ahah but protect the ones you like and dont let others hurt them thats not bad at all. thats a good thing for me^^ i cant believe that isnt nothing bad about you ahah you cant be that perfect
13 Nov 10
i guess my bad side is the fact that if somebody hurt my family or someone really close to me then i will hit out, well id hit out if they were a man, i would not hit a woman, but i would never let anyone hurt my family or others thats close to me, i will protect them.
@shaggin (71663)
• United States
8 Nov 10
I guess I cant really sat that I feel protected but I sure feel good when a man I am in love with holds me. Its such a nice feeling. It doesnt have to be just someone I love its just nice for any guy that I am around to hold me when I feel like cuddling. Thats something I miss is being cuddled. I went to see the guy I am seeing last night and we cuddled for awhile. It was so beautiful on his couch in front of the fireplace.
• Portugal
13 Nov 10
yes shaggin i guess you are right. must be so cute to be hold by a guy we like. sad that i couldnt have that. at least not from one i cared more than friends. but maybe someday i can^^ if ever meet my ex near :) he said he would wait for the time for us to be together to come. i trust his feelings bcs never saw him flirting with girl in facebook. out of it i doubt he flirts bcs his sister even talked with me too. and he put in his profile im his gf not caring what his friends or family would say^^ so i will just wait. but have relation for now isnt good bcs i expect much and want his attention and he cant give me right now bcs needs to help his family. so cant be always online or always calling me. im happy for you and the guy you like^^ he really likes you too im sure^^ just he doesnt want to show yet. but he will soon. since how many monthes are you seeing him?
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Nov 10
I always feel extra safe and secure when my lover holds me tight. I know I have nothing to fear from the world in my lover's arms.
• Portugal
13 Nov 10
is good that you feel extra safe if he holds you tight^^ and sure you dont need to fear bcs if we have someone that loves us holding us we dont need nothing else in the world. i guess all we need is someone that really love us and do all for us^^ dont you agree? at least for me i feel like this. if i have love i dont need nothing more^^
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
5 Nov 10
I will protected :) can't explain the feeling :) but if he hold me tight i feel that i am so secure and no one can harm me :) (but unfortunately, no one will hold me tight as of now)LOL
• Portugal
13 Nov 10
thats cute that you will feel that way^^ and will feel that no one can hurt you^^ is ok if for now no one can hold you tight. me too. but we will find right guy for us right?^^ i guess i found mine. but we are so far away now so. also maybe some girl can come close and get him. but he said he would wait me so i will trust him^^ and you soon find the right guy^^ what about the guy you like? what happened? any news?