Do you assume that he...

Malaysia
November 5, 2010 10:00am CST
Do you assume that he is your partner when you really stay in his house for sometime for fun with his sisters and friends and you cannot deny it when people talks about it in the town? I am not sure about it coz I really stay in his guy house for sometime. I thought that is his relatives house and I had gone to his restaurant to dine regularly I mean every Saturday and many more fum memories. Yet he did not confess he loves me but his sisters are saying it out loud that he and I are attracted. I kinda shame about myself and now I don't know who spread the rumours we are together until the whole town knows and assume I am his partner? But no one came to me and asked me about it. I just heard them talking and gossipping behind my back. And once I heard some guys drive in front of my house and said that THE GUY LOVES ME. I don't know whether this friend asked his friends to do this silly things coz I admit that in the past his sisters and I always do silly things. But now we have lost touch almost 10 years and I really moved on if not a lot still a bit. Is there any possibility from the rumours that people made he wanted us to be together again? And I myself never believe in rumours until someone really asked me but the rumours are getting serious each day like when I go to a simple shop to have a breakfast the people who tend to gossip are always ready to knock you down. Am I doing a right decision if I move out from the small town that I have lived for years? Or should I come face to face and asked him the truth?
2 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Well, being that you live in a small town, even if the truth were to come out about your relationship with this man, still the damage has been done. That said, if you feel comfortable in making the decision to move from the place where you've lived for years, then I would say that is probably what you should do. That said, I think that you will also have a lot more opportunities if you were to move away from where you live now as far as having a job and a sustainable life.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
6 Nov 10
It seems to me from your tale that your whole relationship is built on what you assume and others say. This is not something you can build your life on. You need a face to face so the both you and your friend know exactly where you stand. Good luck