What is it with girls and jerks?

Egypt
November 6, 2010 5:03pm CST
Ive just seen it over and over again ,girls falling for jerks and ALWAYS keeping the nice guys in the friend zone . Ive always watched and said i would never be one of those girls until recently i fell for a complete jackass and i honestly have no explanation to why we do this , ladies why do we fall for jerks??? and please all the nice guys out there GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT ,dont let girls put you in the friend zone.
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8 responses
7 Nov 10
I think we've all seen that over the years.... i'm not quite sure why girls like jerks and teens that cause trouble but i guess it could be something to do with they find it fun to go around with someone who does that or because they think that person can look after them if they get in trouble themselves. I am happy that i found my perfect partner at the age of 16 though... although neither of us are bad...
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@Outcast (632)
• United States
6 Nov 10
I guess because jerks arent affrid to go after what they want. And the nice ones out there second guess what they would have to offer. Nice guys please listen. DO NOT BE SCARED TO GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT.
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@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Hmmm.... I suppose that I could say the same for the thousands of guys I know that complain about stupid and childish b**ches and their drama, yet they always chase after spoiled, high maintanence, and self absorbed brats.
@sjlskl (3382)
• Singapore
7 Nov 10
One of the reasons that I can think of it that jerks have their ways with girls. They know how to impress them and are more romantic. As a result, girls will more likely to fall for them then the good guys, who honestly, ain't as good as them when it comes to that.
• United States
7 Nov 10
I think we females are convinced we can change these bad boys and end up hurting ourselves in the process. I blame fictional depictions of love in cinema & books.
7 Nov 10
You know what, thats the reality of love. We cannot question love, because we dont know when and where gonna happen.You just realize someday if your decision is right or wrong after the love fades.You know,no one is smarter when it comes to love.Thats what the power of love works.
• United States
7 Nov 10
Having just gotten out of a relationship with a jerk (read: a$$hole!), I realize that he fed me what he knew would keep me coming around. He was immensely charming and I was the last one to figure it out. However, I've now met a really nice man who treats me like a princess and its AMAZING! I met him online and I am so glad I took a chance. Ladies, you deserve better!
• United States
6 Nov 10
I haven't fallen for a jerk... but I have pretty darn high standards and don't fall very often anyway. I'm always frustrated by the nice guys going for girls who are temperamental and certain to break their hearts. "Jerk" girls so to speak. I would use another word but it's one I don't like to repeat. So why do nice girls fall for jerks? Dunno. I don't see the lure. Why do nice guy fall for nasty girls? Dunno the answer to that one either. For now I'm just going to wait until a man with some sense comes along.