When you meet your X-friend
By coollady9
@coollady9 (143)
Indonesia
November 6, 2010 9:18pm CST
How do you feel when you meet your x-bf or x-gf? Do you feel something strange or just have fun. It's like a story and it comes again. It feels like there's a distance between us. I want to speak but it can appear. I wanna say hi, but it's so heavy to say it. I really wanna have conversation like it used to be, but of course it is different. Then how can I erase this reluctant so we can be friend and there's no jealousy anymore. What about you?
3 responses
@garychie (157)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Meeting your x-bf or x-gf for the first time after the break up can make you feel uneasy. I can relate to the jealousy part when you are still holding a special feeling towards the person. When you still have that special feeling, even when you have already broke up, you can still feel jealous when he/she is with other person behaving intimately which is not right. You have to tell yourself that she/he is no longer in your system, she/he is out of your life already and you have to move on. Don't lose the game, show to her/him you are no longer under his/her spell. Just try to be friendly act at ease, as if he/she is of no more interest to you. You can do it!
@gzadlawan (76)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
It would probably strange meeting someone like an ex-boyfriend.. i don't I could talk to him straight but just a simple conversation as a friend.
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I have had a few ex-boyfriends and I have not stayed in contact with them except one. We talk here and there and he still has feelings for me and flirts around however I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for over four years.I feel that it is strange and I sometimes want to say hi but then again, I don't want to be considered cheating on my boyfriend so I don't. I don't ever want to see my ex-boyfriend again, haven't seen him for four years and it's going to stay like it. Once a ex will always be an ex.
