Is it true: Somethings are best not said....?

@davido (1623)
Canada
November 7, 2010 5:40am CST
Is it true that some issues are best kept in you and not said out..e.g secrets, events, happenings are best kept as secret or not worth telling your friend, spouse, etc, because if they heard about it no matter how you try to convince them that it was past they will never believe you. Is it true? Do you have examples or experience of such?
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@calpro (930)
• India
7 Nov 10
It happens with every person,In fact some things I really don't open up with people who just cant understand them and they start yelling out.It happens sometimes with spouse and sometimes with friends too. Paying somebody's hospital bill etc are such thing I just keep it to myself.I feel it is better to have the pleasure of helping someone with ourselves,when the other person cannot understand this.
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@davido (1623)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
Yeah I think your right....Many people cant understand what makes others to do somethings...and they try to set the rules as if they are the ones that is so right about all things. So i think is better to keep some things we do to ourselves especially in the area of helps.
@kishannn (35)
7 Nov 10
I think confession is the best thing in the world. If that's what you meant?
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@davido (1623)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
Who do one confess to? a fellow human being that has done worst things and kept it to himself and goes about telling of others mistakes....at the end causes psychological trauma.....I dont think its the best do you?
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
I would quite agree with what you've said. We cannot control everything that could happen in our lives,in everything of our daily lives. Sometimes,uncertain things happen that we are force to keep it to ourselves just to avoid to hurt or to protect our love ones. Keeping a secret from our love ones can be an example. I knew I did it before,but couldn't remember it well.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
yeah...we see a lot of it around us, better we learn from it than gossip or talk about it to others. its trying to be a saint that we are not.
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Yes. Sometimes. Reality hurts but you gotta make sure no one finds out. It depends on how serious it is. As long as it won't harm anyone, it's okay. I got an experience. I saw my co-worker's husband in shopping mall with a woman holding hands with him. I was on a break that time. He works in another city so he "must not" be in that shopping mall. I told my closest friend about it and she affirmed that our co-worker's husband indeed has a mistress. I didn't tell my co-worker about it. I know for sure, she would find out in due time.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
8 Nov 10
yeah...its better she finds out somewhere else especially if the husband is someone you cant talk with. because if she finds out from you...yes it becomes a problem with them but when it is settled you will be the cast away...(not really you) and even if the husband changes his ways and repent...maybe he should just keep it to himself and not talk about it or else the wife now see him as a bad unfaithful person...worst off