Does pain always comes with love?
By audsalas
@prettyauds (258)
Philippines
11 responses
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
As love can bring us joy, can make us smile, can make us feel we're alive, it is also an inevitable fact that it could possible cause our heartache and pain. So enjoy love and it's joy while it still there. And sometimes, the true test of LOVE is when you already go through those pains yet you still chose to love.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
Maybe I don't want to love again,that's why I don't want to get hurt again. I've been so hard with guys lately and with myself too. I told myself that next time I choose to love someone I don't want to get hurt,to feel pain,to cry again. I know it's not possible,but that's what I want to. Anyway,thanks for sharing!
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
13 Nov 10
Hi chuyins123! Thank you so much for the inspiring words. I'll think of that. Thabks again!
@chuyins123 (2112)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
Whatever caused us our pain, shouldn't hinder us to live a happy life. Don't be too hard on other guys dear, you just have to be careful this time around but you can't be rude to all guys just because you were previously hurt. And another thing, please don't allow yourself to be so hard on your own self. After all, you should love your self first before you could give love.
Be vigilant for love, give love, love and keep loving while you still can. Enjoy love by staying in love with God, your self, your family and your friends, and maybe a little later, your romantic partner.
God bless you!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Nov 10
Love takes us through so many emotions. Pain is sure to come along with love at some point. it usually comes with heartbreak as well.@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Definitely right. The more you love the more you might get hurt. :( Thanks for sharing!
@sweetloveforeve (13106)
• Portugal
7 Nov 10
yes auds^^ pain always come with love. there is no perfect love and is good that isnt always all perfect or people would get bored with each other. but dont worry auds love always can surpass all the dificulties^^ so even if has pain it can go away with love and care and kisses and hugs ahah 
as long as the love is true. anyway wish you the best for your love life^^ 
as long as the love is true. anyway wish you the best for your love life^^ @prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Thanks sweetlove! You're really sweet and kind. Thanks for sharing! ^_^
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Love is an emotion that covers all other kinds of emotions too. Pain is always linked to love when we don't know how to deal with our emotions well. It comes naturally to love and i guess we've come to accept that it has become a part of love.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
You're right. Love and pain comes hand in hand in a relationship. Just have to balance it very well to make he relationship work. Thanks for sharing! :)
@pyeluguri (24)
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7 Nov 10
its very obvious to understand that when there is happiness.. then sadness follows.. as a coin has two sides.. when we accept one side of the coin then other side also comes.. when there is love then definetly pain follows.. when we start enjoying then the pain also seems to be very enjoying..
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Hi pyeluguri! That's hurtful,when there is happiness,sadness follows...Maybe by that,it will help us to be strong. It's a kind of test on how far we can go to surpass the pain. Thanks for sharing!
@bunnyxoxoxo (146)
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7 Nov 10
yep...whether we like it or not it comes like a package..it's impossible to be loved without getting hurt, even in the start,m midway, or in the end..
@tkonlinevn (6383)
• Vietnam
8 Nov 10
Yes, that's right. Because pains go with happiness in love. You'll be difficult to feel perfect happiness without pains.
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
its part of loving. and you know its a justification that you are really loving if you experienced pain cause your affected because you love that person. if you dont get hurt means you never love that person at all and true love means you are willing to get hurt!! for me its a good thing if i get hurt or im willing to get hurt for people i love cause it only shows that i genuinely love them!!=)
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 10
yes, we cant avoid getting hurt. no matter how you love your boyfriend, and no matter how your boyfriend loves you. there are always troubles in love relationship. i got so many pain like i got so many love from him. too many fighting happen just because a small problem. always arguing because of different perception. and affraid to lose each other make us jelaous to each other. we cant avoid such a thing, because we are human.
