The family or the love, which one will you choose?
By JimmySun
@jimmysun (401)
China
November 8, 2010 1:08am CST
From the ancient times, we have the saying that one must choose between loyalty and filial devotion. In the moden times, as the society develops, in your mind, the distance is not an obstacle which cannot be removed, but our parents do not think so. So, when we go out or find a BF/GF who is not in the same province with you will get the opposition from the family. There should be many lovers who are in such a situation. And they do not know how to solve this problem. Raising this topic, just want to help them and me find a better way to deal with such a case...
2 responses
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
My Ex and I live in the same city. He asked me one time who will I choose, him or my family. I told him of course the family. They supported me all my life and it's the wisest decision I'll make. He agreed with me because that's also his answer.
No matter how love conquers our heart, lets not be blind of it. Once it pops, you get lost and who do you go to? Of course your family. But if you think of friends, they also have their own problem and it's hard for them to accommodate you.
People out there who are in love, don't give 100% to your partner. You should give some to the ones who also love you and who took care of you.
@BALHABALHA (54)
• Tunisia
8 Nov 10
hello,i dont think there is a problem between love and family you can visit family every time without creating problems,but the problems begin really when you live all in the same house,at that time i guess,you cant do anything and you will lose the both
