How is successful and failure? / myLot

Vietnam

November 8, 2010 1:24am CST

I almost don't think about this until recent. I begin to compare me and my friends. We graduated same year. But my friends can buy new bike, to save a lot money and to care their family. But I'm not. I don't have any things. I almost don't change from the day I graduated with the same bike and the same money in my bank account. I realize that I'm being failure! I need the change to get success right now!

5 responses

pyeluguri

@pyeluguri (24)

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8 Nov 10

proper planning is needed for you to be successful.. if you are into a job then now onwards start saving the money to find the difference.. now that you have understood you are becoming failure then its a stepping stone to success.. have a nice future and stop comparing with others because it might hurt your personal feelings..

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@tkonlinevn (6383)

• Vietnam

9 Nov 10

I'm very like your respond. These are what I think. I begin to come back with myself and I think that I must have a better plan for my life to get success.

gloryacam

@gloryacam (5540)

• Philippines

10 Nov 10

I feel that way a lot of times, too. That is why I'm spending less and less time at facebook, because everytime I read about my batchmates in school, I cannot help but compare how we are now. It makes me disappointed that I, too, am not as successful as they are. The thing to do is to stop comparing your self with others. Each has his/her own life, and to each his/her own time. I believe that someday, we might also get that success that we yearn for. Also, during these times of envy, I try to count and my blessings like my job, my family, my health...and somehow I get comforted that I am not such a failure. But, I agree that we need to change in order to succeed. One cannot just sit and wallow in on self-pity and become successful. We must get up and work up. Here's to a successful you, me and all other lotters!

success

Polang

@tkonlinevn (6383)

• Vietnam

11 Nov 10

I compare between me and my friends in order that I can have motive to grow up. I think it's good. We think about success to be better person, not wallow in on self-pity.

phong1040572

@phong1040572 (672)

• Thailand

8 Nov 10

well success and failure is belong to your thinking mate. just happy and get you want is successful. don't compare with your friend like that mate.

Polang

@tkonlinevn (6383)

• Vietnam

9 Nov 10

I understand your means. But I think that we sometimes should compare with the persons who have the same beginning like us. So, we can realize that what we do need to change or not.