What is the best thing to do to move on?

@ynahh1 (454)
November 8, 2010 2:32am CST
Its been a month and i still did not fully recover with my separation with my husband.What is your best way to suggest in order for me to move on as fast as he do?please help.I will gladly appreciate all the things and facts that ypou will share.Thanks.
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4 responses
zhpshql
@zhpshql (693)
• China
8 Nov 10
Hi,so sorry for your separation..And I don't think I can give you the best way..and for your question,my answer is time..Time can cure you and make you move on..There are also some suggestions,liking moving to another city or country..
ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
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8 Nov 10
thank you for responding...its hard for me to move on knowing that he has a new one in just a short month..What are the things that making me hard is that he's my school mate and our house is just a few blocks from him.What makes me strong is our baby! I hope the pain inside me disappear am sick and tired but still faith God for he knows best.Thank..somehow in your respond i feel not alone..
ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
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17 Nov 10
thank you so much,..i hope i can move on now..as they said continue life.i hope at the end we find the true love and happiness.God bless.I appreciated your thoughts.
garychie
@garychie (157)
• Philippines
8 Nov 10
I would suggest to start loving your self instead of loving your husband. I agree it hurts but it is all over. It is not about him now, it is about you. Start opening your heart to a bright tomorrow. Keep yourself busy in improving yourself. Love your self and dont allow anyone to hurt you.
ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
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17 Nov 10
yeah,its all over!I got your point i need to concentrate in myself and my baby now its hard to fight someone who is not worth fighting for.Instead o emoting i need to enhance myself and think for tomorrow,I hope i succeed in this field.The nest time around i know what i will do.
sender621
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
8 Nov 10
Moving on is taking back control of your life. Don't rush to the next relationship. Take your time. it will be worth it.
ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
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17 Nov 10
I always prayed to God to give me enough strength to combat this emotion of hatred,fear,anger,heartaches and etc.I hope so that my waiting will be worth it.Thank you for responding.
dheerajlko
@dheerajlko (471)
• India
8 Nov 10
this only u can help urself as they say women deal with problam diffrently them men do i can only say keep ur self occupied so u will not remember him
ynahh1
@ynahh1 (454)
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17 Nov 10
Like you suggested I also keep myself busy,from my baby,school and work but when ever i am at school I saw him because his just my schoolmate and worst i saw his new girl.thank you for responding it counts.