saying im sorry...

Philippines
November 9, 2010 12:36am CST
is saying the two word "I'M SORRY",is something so hard to do??? even at times when you know its not your fault at all..would it be so hard to say I'm sorry just for the sake of ending the argument for instance or simply to humble ourselves in any way?? what are your opinions??
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13 responses
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
I think it's easier to say sorry when you've done nothing wrong than to say sorry because you've done wrong and admit it...
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
yeah sometimes it does..i agree on that..:)
@boraitou (19)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 10
well, saying "I`m sorry" for me is just like sacrificing my whole pride, ESPECIALLY if that fault isn`t mine. so, I really say that word if I really felt that bad, I mean "real bad"
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
hi cindy! for me, saying i'm sorry is the easiest thing to do to stop continual argument but sometimes it depends on how much the person feel about it... It really hard to say i'm sorry if it does not comes from the heart especially if it is not my mistake but first i had to depend myself and reason out... if it doesn't works then that will be the time to utter the words "sorry" to satisfy the other person... Saying that words all over again everytime i commit mistakes seems habitual and not heartily spoken... Anyway, the good thing is that if it makes sense just to end up the fight why not?..
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
Saying it is not hard at all..but meaning it, that is hard...especially if that person you are saying sorry to either really hurt you or is the one at fault. But to avoid argument, it is necessary to humble ourselves and just say it, mean it..
@joysantos (131)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
Sometimes I find it hard to say sorry even if it is my fault. It is due to my pride actually. But years of experience taught me how to make it easier. Saying sorry if you know your at fault makes the situation and environment friendly.
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
I am a proud person which translates that I don't usually cave in when it comes to faults or apologies. For me, saying sorry is a two-edge sword that makes me look incompetent and stupid. But I also know that pride is not always the answer to the argument. In response to your question. I would say sorry if I know that I'm in the wrong but I may also say the word but not meant it (followed by an explanation) if I feel that the blame is palced wrong on me.
9 Nov 10
It depends whats happened and how far the argument went... sometimes saying sorry makes it all better. Other times people say sorry but still need to calm down as its not always that easy to just accept it and move on. Usually leaving someone alone for an hour or two with help the issue get better on its own as both people need to take responsibility and calm down properly before being able to confront each other again.
@Mat_keane (236)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 10
I like to hear about sayin i'm sorry. For me it depend to individual. I'm already do mistake to my friend and i'm faster say "I'm Sorry" coz i dont want make my friend broken heart. For me friendship is more important.
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
It's not so hard to say. It's just not in my vocabulary.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Saying "I'm sorry" is really a bit hard sometimes, and especially if it is not you fault. But yes,I think it's sometimes necessary to avoid conflict or argument...or a stint in you relationship with that person.
@sophia18 (106)
• China
10 Nov 10
It is a bit hard for me,it's not because that I will humble myself if I say so,but because I am upset whether I will be forgiven,it needs courage.However,I have to say it if I am really wrong,but if not,I will never say so.
@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
It's hard for me to say sorry because I don't want to lose in an argument. I don't want to be the floor mat who keeps on giving up. It's pride actually. But I later regretted that I should have apologized first. Now I lost the love of my life. :(
• Romania
10 Nov 10
Would be ok to say I'm sorry if i know i'm wrong, if not then why say it. If it's just for the sake of ending an argument then i better leave then say i'm sorry