Absence makes heart Fonder ?

@Karunvig (714)
India
November 9, 2010 11:49am CST
Absence or long distance relationships are very rare for success and they make heart fonder... As per my experience they hardly works, what all u say guyz ?
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12 responses
@anneish (117)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
as long as communication is open in both,it will possibly work!...
@anneish (117)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
oh yeah...in that view i agree with you. so maybe just be wise then...and if your partner cheat on you.well you have the right to decide for what to happen.,
@Karunvig (714)
• India
11 Nov 10
Even if communication is open, you dont know what gonna happen or what ur partner is upto on the other side.. very tough to trust and deal with !
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
My boyfriend and I were into having a long distance relationship. I have to say that it's very challenging but it's also helping us in a way.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
11 Nov 10
well things which are challenging are of great help... yes it surely make a level of confidence between the two and help the relation grow earier..
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
I have to say that during the first few months, we find it very much difficult to adjust. We fought a lot and even we decided to part ways but now, we're doing great.
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
10 Nov 10
The saying "Out of sight ....out of mind" works better fo me! As far as my opinion on distant relation is concerned, i don't think it works. There might be some relations that work out but most of them dont work.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
It is really very hard but me and my bf are hanging on to each other. A long distance relationship will never work if only one is so eager to make it work. Both couples should make an effort. Im not saying this will work since there is still a very long way to go through, but im praying. Absence really makes the heart fonder
@Karunvig (714)
• India
11 Nov 10
yes agree with you, love n care should be from both the sides as one making effort and other time pass, it ruins the relationship...
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
12 Nov 10
It works to me.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
13 Nov 10
Absence makes the heart fonder, that's true. BUt that's not for long distance relationship, right from the start. Meaning, if u have never meet him or her before, where does the absence come from? We feel the pain and ache, miss him/her, as a person. We crave for them physically, get a hug and kiss from them etc. That's what absence makes the heart grow more fonder about.
• United States
9 Nov 10
Believe it or not, this is quite true. When the one you love isn't around, you yearn for them to be there, and when they come back, the first thing that you want to do is embrace them. You really wish to be with them when you miss them.
• Philippines
9 Nov 10
Its okay to some couple but some would not. For me a long distance relationship will test each other ability to hold on to the relationship. As much as possible, long distance relationship must be avoided in the relationship, but some circumstance are beyond the control of both parties like work or study in a different place. Constant communication is necessary, technology nowadays are very helpful especially for couples working or studying apart.
@Wizzywig (7847)
9 Nov 10
I can think of a few people that I like so much more when they are absent
• United States
9 Nov 10
It would certainly be quite a struggle especially if it is long term. As we as humans have so many distractions of which we can certainly try not to engage in. However when we have certain issues in life and our partner is not there for us to vent and or cry on their shoulder it becomes that much more difficult not to engage in others that freely offer it.
@janron29 (266)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
I have a long distance relationship with my husband. It is not really a hindrance on our relationship. We are using skype as our mode of communication. Love is the foundation in order for a relationship to work out.
@franne32 (694)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
It's hard for a long distance relationship to work but it depends on the couple involved. Unfortunately for me it's the opposite of fonder on his part. So it really does take two for it to work no matter how long the distance is.