why people always fail in there love stories

I wonder also why almost girls are like that. My ex girlfriend said to me before that we can break up because we did not make a commitment to each other. When I remember that every time, i laughing out loud all the time. Its just a BS.

If you failed, then it only means a lot of things. Allow me to enumerate. 1) You don't know yourself yet. If you are comfortable with who you are and like the job you have, then you can say that you love yourself. I don't mean being selfish. I mean that you have to at least have confidence in how you carry yourself. 2) The one you're with isn't the right one for you. If you failed in a relationship, then maybe you're not meant to be with each other. 3) Communication! The girl or guy you're in love with just sees you as a friend when in fact you've spent a LOT of time together? Can't you at least ask what your relationship status is? If you are meant to be with each other, then communication shouldn't be a problem. Having an open mind is important in a relationship. At the same time, no one can read your mind.

i see what you mean^^ that girls sometimes seem to love a boy but like him as friend only. well thats the way we are. we are sweet mostly so is a bit hard to find out. anyway not everyone fails in their love stories. many people have luck^^ if you feel sad im sorry. but im sure someday a girl will love you much^^ just try not to get too close to a girl if you feel that she doesnt love you back. or else you get hurt.