Your realationsship

@NicoZieg (591)
Denmark
November 10, 2010 8:54am CST
How long has your longest relationship lasted. Do you think your current relationship it will last forever? My relationship has lasted for 10 month now, but I going really bad, so I don't know how long we will stay together.
7 responses
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Nov 10
Not any relationship will be till the end. This is my own experience a girl I fully helped her for a study from last 2 years and I search a boy for her marriage but after marriage she says now don't call me. So according to me even close friends also not stay together till the end and cannot maintain relation also. In goodfaith we shared our feelings with our friend but this is not a better way to tackle our problems. So don't get close to any friend.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
11 Nov 10
I don't agree with you. In fact some people has stayed together to the end. I have a really good friend, and we have been friends since 1997, where we was 3 years old.
• India
12 Nov 10
I say 75% then you are fit in remaining 25% In my day today life more persons meet me and say me yes some friends are selfish they use us then left us. I face most of the people says this. But this is the experience Of India. Even though some friends are good and they maintain their relationship at the end.
@scooter1024 (1243)
• United States
12 Nov 10
My longest relationship lasted 8 years. We got divorced about 11 years ago. My husband and I have been married for 1 year and I am hoping it lasts forever. Everyone wants that one true love to spend their life with. I really hope this one is mine.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
13 Nov 10
I really hope it is.
@Bryanx54 (644)
11 Nov 10
im currently in relationship which has lasted 2 years 1 month, with my girlfriend and i'll tell you this now i know this is true love. I know this because we've had our fights, our bad times, our 'im done with you' moments but in the end its always the same we come back together laugh and love one another. Its been one hell of a uphill task and i've struggled to cope so many many times but i fight on because i know she loves me, and we are in a extremely loyal relationship it had its trust problems but that was only early on in the relationship. Now we are engaged and everything seems to be going swell and 9 days till 2 years and 2 months we always celebrate a monthly thing it helps the morale of our relationship and just have that one days to express our love similiar to an annual valentine's day lol.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
11 Nov 10
I'm very happy on your ways, that you realationsship is going that well. I think it's very good that you celebrate every month-day you know. It makes the relationsship going on in a good way, and you don't forget eachother. I think that it's an important thing. I will just wish you best of luck with this relationsship, and if you love eachother so much, then you meant to be together.
• United States
10 Nov 10
Sorry your relationship is not going well, I wish things can get resolved or you decide that maybe being together is not right for the both of you. I wish you luck in this area and wished it were different. As for me my ex-husband and I were together for 9 years but we divorced. I am currently live with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and things are still wonderful, and sure striving for it to last forever. Sure as couples we all of ups and downs, sometimes it works out well and sometimes they do not.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
10 Nov 10
Thank you. I hope the problems will get solved soon, or we have to break up, because it's the best for both of us. No one is happy in a bad relationsship. I'm sorry that you and you ex didn't last forever. 9 years is very long, so you must have had a good relationsship, but as you said, you it doesn't function, then it's best to break up. On the other hand I'm proud in your ways, that you have found a new boyfriend, and you have a wonderful time with him. Hope you will stay with him forever.
• Canada
10 Nov 10
I dated the same guy from when we were 13 to when we were 20. We loved each other, but we weren't right for each other. We kept growing apart, and eventually broke up. We stayed friends, caught the occasional movie together, etc, but I find we just don't have a lot to talk about because we have almost nothing in common. We still call each other on our birthdays and text the odd time just to catch up, even though it's been 3 1/2 years since we broke up.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
10 Nov 10
Well I'm sorry that it didn't last for more years, but 7 years is really much, especially in that age. It's very difficult in that age, because you are growing in-side. I think it's good that you broke up, and then stayed as friends, because if you had not to talk about, then it's very boring.
@jhen_jkc (105)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
My longest relationship was almost 6months, now i don't if my present relationship will last that long...
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
10 Nov 10
Well 6 months is not very for I think. But I don't know how old you are, but for young people 6 months is okay. For your current relationsship I will wish you best of luck, and hope it will last forever.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
10 Nov 10
Well my relationship with my husband lasted for 3 years before we tied the knot. We had our ups and downs and a couple of breaking up prior to that. I even dated other men in the middle of the break up but we still got back together and ended up marrying each other.
@NicoZieg (591)
• Denmark
10 Nov 10
Sounds that is was not good. In my relationship we also have our ups and downs, but recently we have a very bad down. I don't know if we break up, or what we do.