Do you think a parent can turn their child gay at an early age?
By keeegan_ess
@keeegan_ess (512)
United States
November 10, 2010 4:37pm CST
I was reading this article about this woman who allowed her 5-year old son to be Daphne (from Scooby Doo) for Halloween. She posted a picture of him on her blog and was immediately bombarded with angry comments from followers. Many of them were saying that she was attempting to turn her son gay in the process. The blogger wrote that she would support her son either way. What do you think? Can parents turn their kids gay at an early age?
Below is a picture of the Halloween costume.
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@sid556 (30953)
• United States
11 Nov 10
No, I don't believe that a halloween costume is going to turn any kid gay. I just don't believe it. My brothers often dressed up as girls for Halloween and they are not at all gay. My grandson dressed up like a girl for Halloween this year....not gay.
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@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
11 Nov 10
Well, I don't necessarily think that Halloween costumes are going to turn people this way. It's just a one time thing. But being exposed to this stuff all the time and on a daily basis, I think it can definitely play on who you're going to turn out to be.
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@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
11 Nov 10
I think it is something in their genes that makes them turn gay or straight. However, mothers who like to dress their sons and daughters dress as girls and boys do din into their mind that makes them think thus. If they nurture these feelings for a longer time it might make them turn gay.
@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
11 Nov 10
Really? Really? You think there's a gay gene? Well, no sir, there is not a gay gene. Scientists have never found one and they never will. Because such a thing doesn't exist! People aren't born gay. People are made gay through nature and the things around them. Maybe some things have great factors and others don't, but these things still pay a toll.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
11 Nov 10
No they can not
It is a well known fact that Children like to dress up at an early age which also means that Boys can dress up in Girls Clothes, it is a Game
The fact that People need to realise here is you do not turn someone Gay it is an act of nature and happens
People say God did not make People that way it is a sin, well sorry, when People decide what way God has made People and not it has nothing to do with religion, it is spite, it is not a sin, at the end of the Day, as People always say, everything that happens is an act and Guidance of God
I am not religious, I do believe in my own way, I have a couple of Friends that are Gay, they are the most lovely Friends you can have and they where not turned Gay by the Parents as they say it is just something that has happened and they are happy that way
So no Parents do not turn their Children Gay
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
11 Nov 10
Well it is her son. And there is nothing wrong with being gay. I believe if the kid wants to be Daphne, for the kid's sake let him be Daphne! what is wrong with being Daphne? the kid is still a kid, let him choose who he wants to be, its his course in life.the mom is just being supportive and loving and accepting. Plus being Daphne does not mean he wants to be gay! lolz..he is still 5!! not unless the next year he wants to be Beyonce or Britney Spears, now that is something. But if he is meant to be gay, why not?!!?! i mean there is nothing wrong with GAY people! i love them!


@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
11 Nov 10
That's what I thought. Everyone doesn't agree with this opinion though. But yes, that's good for his mom to respect his wishes. The mom is also supportive with him. But about you saying 'he is still 5', most people are susceptible to new things at a young age. Your brain is like a sponge when you're that young so you start to take in new habits and ways of life. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with gays or anything like that. But, he just has a greater 'risk', per say.
@BambooPanda13 (867)
• United States
10 Nov 10
I saw the same article. People don't get "turned" gay. They are the way they are. Two twins can grow up in the same household and one can be gay and the other straight. She didn't dress her son as Daphne, HE CHOSE to be Daphne and WANTED to be Daphne so she bought him the outfit. Just because he wore that does not mean he will grow up to be gay either. Also, it was Halloween, she didn't mention anything about him wanting to wear "girl's" clothes any other time. He must just admire Daphne and wanted to be like her.
@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Well, I think that people are influenced in that sense. Yes he chose and yes he wanted it, meaning that he wants to be like her. And he probably does have a greater chance of growing up gay. He's already experienced to what girls and boys like. He already knows that girls like Daphne and such. I'm not saying he's most definite going to be gay, but there is a risk. And I don't see anything wrong with that.
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@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
11 Nov 10
So you're basically saying there is a 'gay gene' per say? I really doubt that. I think people are born the same but made gay. Yes, I don't think they'd make the choice to be constantly bullied by ignorant people, but they become gay at an early age. Probably a little after they were born.
@sid556 (30953)
• United States
11 Nov 10
No I am not saying anything about a gay gene at all. I mentioned that I read a while back that it possibly has something to do with the hormone levels of the mother while carrying the child. So if they are "made gay" how do you figure they are made that way.? What about the gay men who never dressed like girls and who never played with girl type toys? How about the siblings with the same experiences and parents that aren't gay? Your theory just doesn't sound logical to me.
@chocoholicx (228)
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10 Nov 10
I don't think parents can decide whether their child is straight of gay however, I don't think you are "born gay" as many have said. I think you can develop your sexuality to your envioroment though, othewise there would have been a much higher proportion of homosexuals in anti-gay countries and a much lower proportion of gays during the time of the ancient Greeks. Therefore, possibly having more open-minded parents who didn't mind if their son or daughter was gay may perhaps boost the chance of them being gay. But I really don't know, one things for sure, parents "turn" their kids gay at an early age.
@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Yeah, I agree with you. People become gay through nature. In some cases, I actually think it's a choice too. I think I changed my whole opinion around! There are some girls who were abused by older men that think it is better off not living with one. So they turn gay. But it is different in some circumstances. I actually think that parents do control a factor in turning their kids gay. But not a big one.
@shaggin (74987)
• United States
11 Nov 10
I dont think you can turn a child gay. They either are or they arent. Its our job as parents to love them no matter what. Parents allow little girls to wear boys costumes so why not let a little boy wear a girls costume. If my son truly wanted to be a girl character for Halloween I would let him. First I would say to him that really its supposed to be for girls to wear and someone might pick on him if he wears it but if he still wanted to wear it I would allow him to. I dont think people should be saying nasty things to this women she is just letting her son be a kid and enjoy himself.
@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
10 Nov 10
I don't think so at all. People used to tell my parents that letting my younger brother play with my barbies and other dolls would lead to him turning out to be gay later in life. That is so NOT the case ! My brother is the straightest person that I know ! He is very open minded and is very accepting of everyone, whether they are straight or not.
@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
10 Nov 10
I had almost the same experience! We had this pink wig that I had for some reason and I would put it on my little cousin just to have fun. His grandma would tell me to take it off and stop because it was turning him gay. She didn't say it, but she hinted at it. He hasn't grown up yet, but I doubt he's gay!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Nov 10
I don't believe that parents have the ability to make their children gay. I believe that homosexuality is actually a genetic flaw that has happened to some people. The reason that I believe that this is the case is because it seems that homosexuality seems to run in families. For example, my father was one of ten children, six boys and four girls of the six boys, three of them are or where gay. Then there are my cousins on that same side of the family, there were a total of sixteen of us and there are at least four of them that are homosexual.
@keeegan_ess (512)
• United States
10 Nov 10
Genetic? Wow. I really don't believe homosexuality is genetic. I don't necessarily think it's someone's choice either. I mean, no one would choose to be bullied all day long! But I think it's how kids are raised and what things they experience.










