What factors should we consider before hiring a tutor for Children?

@saqi78 (1402)
Malaysia
November 14, 2010 5:34am CST
Hello Dear Lotter Hiring tutor is getting harder and harder every day, the reason behind this is not that tutors are not available but there are certain factors which should be considered before hiring a tutor. There are a number of things to think about if you are considering hiring a tutor. You should first assess whether your child’s problems in school might be caused by an undiagnosed learning disability. If not, you should consider the areas in which your child needs help. As well, you need to consider the different types of tutoring that are available to your child, and the ability of the tutor. Also, think about the security of your child when hiring a tutor, and make decisions on what you can afford to pay for a tutor’s services. If the tutoring is being conducted in your home, you can probably be fairly certain of your child’s safety. However if you are leaving a child at a tutor’s house, you must look to the safety of your child by performing background checks before hiring a tutor. Sadly, child molesters tend to be attracted to positions where they can be around children The main thing in hiring tutor is the price, some experienced tutor have high prices and some are cheaper, I think we should do some type of trade with them before hiring them What are your suggestion for hiring a tutor, do you like to trade with them before hiring or you ll just see their experience and ability before hiring? And what safety measures do you think should be taken, whether it is good at your home or it is OK for you if your child is going to his/her tutor home? Have a nice day...:)
9 responses
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
i guess there are only two factors. one is intelligence and the other one is attitude. how could he teach if s/he doesnt know what s/he is teaching. attitude is very important when dealing your child while teaching him/her.
@markleob (1902)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
@aaronfyzeon: intelligence is the epitome of knowledge and experience. one could not be learned if he doest have experience. and patience could be included in the attitude. jejejej so if a person has both, intelligence and attitude, then he has what it takes to be a good tutor.
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
You would not find an intelligent tutor doing the tutorials of someone's child unless it has a big pay. I would still go for the experience being a tutor. For the attitude part he or she should also be patient teaching slow learner kids. These intelligent tutors does not have the amount of patience because for them learning is VERY EASY. I would still go for the experience being a tutor for the longest period of time.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 10
Hi Markleob Yeah, I agree with your comment, and you are very right that the person who you are going to hire must be a learned one, he should know the value of learning and this can only be seen by his attitude. Intelligence of tutor is always must, if he is not intelligent and do not know how to deal with student then there is no need of such kind of tutor, I really appreciate your response and thank you very much for participating in this discussion. Have a nice day dear...:)
@aaronfyzeon (1920)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
Hello Saqi, This is a nice topic. Before I state the factors to consider before hiring a tutor for your child, I want to share my own experience being a tutor myself when I was still in college. This part time job of mine really supported my existence for one whole year and I am grateful for this kind of noble job as well as being teachers. This was stated on the most controversial response I posted that made my account messed up. Parents should consider if their children is having any learning problems because of some disorders that is happening to their child. I have one close neighbor here that is still a child but the intelligent quotient is reaching like the graders in primary education level. So instead of hiring a tutor the parents sent them to a specialist of that kind of disorder. He was having problems with socialization. Indeed you are correct with that one. Another factor to consider is your finances if you are able to continue to spend much until the child really understand his or lessons very well. It should also be done in the comfort of you OWN home. You should also be able to do a background check with the tutor you are going to hire or someone that you really know like a neighbor or a churchmate. The best suggestion I can give is to know who are the top students in your child's class and invite them over to you house and let them STUDY their SUBJECTS BY GROUP. There is nobody who can teach your child with the same kind of ability in learning the WAY that other TOP NOTCH STUDENTS CAN DO. It is more effective to teach your own classmate the way you learn the lesson rather than a teacher teaching their class over and over again with the teacher's own understanding sometimes. I hope you get what I mean. Have a great day.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 10
Yeah, I agree with you and really you shared some very good points over here, specially the last one is really very good suggestion and it is doable. It ll not only serve for studies of child but it ll also serve for his social interaction with his friend. I think inviting the best students from the class to your home for group study, always help, I remember for my self, during group studies I always learned a lot from discussion and helping friends in solving their questions, helping others in group study and discussion mean you are helping your self and it not only help your friends but also contribute to your knowledge as well. So I agree with your point and consider it very valid, instead of hiring tutor, some good students from class can be invited to home for group study with your child...:) Thanks for suggestions and keep it up...:) Always keep smile on your face, it ll improve your face value...:) Have a nice day...:)
• Philippines
14 Nov 10
Thank you so much for agreeing. There is nothing more enjoyable in learning if you are having fun with it with the company of your own classmates or friends.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
I agree with what you have stated here. I've been in the job of tutorial. For me, my students comes to our house. Well I say that I was trusted for I looked after those children during their primary grade shool upto their high school. And for me, hiring a tutor is just like hiring a nanny. Parents should come to people who they know they children would be taken cared of appropriately. Not only with academic related issues but with values as well. SEnse of responsibility of the tutor is also something to consider, since they are paid for that task.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
Thanks SimpleBB This is really nice comments that with academic related issue tutor should have some sense of responsibility regarding values, this is one of the main important thing beside education that children should learn their values and tutor can play a big role in character building of the student. And I also agree with you that parents should go to those tutors who they already know and trust, this mean their children ll in safe hands...:) Thanks for the response...:) Have a good day...:)
@hanni711 (243)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
In the first place we should be the first one to know why our kids need tutor. If we are decided to get one for our kids the first thing we need to consider is the experience of the tutor and we need to get referral from his/her from his past experiences. From there, we can assess his/her skill and ability of being a tutor. As for me, I prefer my child to be tutored at home.It's not just for his safety but I'll be able to observe also how the tutor treats my kid.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
Hi Hanni I agree with you that at home we can monitor the tutor as well as our child activities and it is important. Your suggestions are very nice, I really appreciate them and these should be considered before and after hiring tutor...:) Thanks for response, keep in touch Have a nice day a head...:)
@angelic123 (1108)
• United States
15 Nov 10
Having the tutorial at your home I think is better than having your kid go to the tutor's house. I think it is safer too because you might not know the safety of the tutor's place. another is that you can or somebody can monitor or see if the tutor is doing her work properly. I have seen tutors who are not teaching the kid but only answer the assignments or do the project without even explaining it to the kid.But I think it will be more expensive if the tutor will have a home service for your kid. Factors to be Considered: 1. Attitude of the tutor. She must be strict yet approachable. 2. Educational background. Sometimes it is not necessary if the tutor graduated from college as long as she has the knowledge on the particular subjects that your kid has having problem with. 3. Patient. I think this three are very vital in looking for a good tutor.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
Thanks Angelic, your suggestions and comments are really very good and I appreciate your approach. This is really necessary that we should look for the attitude of tutor and his/her educational background, and whether s/he have full command on the subject or not. And lastly the patient is necessary, an impatient teacher can have negative effect on the child personality and also on his education. Thanks for the response, Have a nice day...:)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
yes usually the instructor hired will work under the parent's directions. first and foremost, you should discuss the needs of your child to the tutor that you would like to hire, then let the tutor discuss to you of what are those preparations the he/she needs to do to learn your child about the areas which your child struggled. This will help you to determine if the tutor is fit to your needs for your child. as much as possible you should get referrals from other parents or instructors for potential tutors. these are the points i can share to you to hire a potential tutor
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
Hi X1 These are really good points and I appreciate your approach on this topic, it is really very good to have some discussion with tutor on his/her ability before hiring him and referral from other professionals and parents is necessary because it ll help you in selecting the best tutor for your child. Thanks for nice response, keep in touch Have a very nice day friend...
• United States
14 Nov 10
I do not believe in tutoring. 1. I believe it is a waste of valuable study time. 2. It could be a huge waste of money (Depending on student's work habit) 3. Student may not want it? If the student has a textbook, I believe studying from there would be a better help than getting a tutor. Also, encourage your student to read a lot.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
14 Nov 10
Thank you very much for your nice response, I think parents should always judge their kid whether their child need any help or not, parents are best tutor, if they can give time to their child then it is one of the best option, otherwise, if their child needs some help in his/her course work then they can consider one tutor based on students own choice...:) Have a nice day...:) Be happy and be the reason of happiness in others life...:)
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
My sister paid RM800.00 monthly to hire a tutor to teach the history subject for her only daughter. After teaching by the tutor, her daughter improved very much. It is really too expensive for me. In my mind, all of the children should revise their school works independently. Tutor is only good to guide the children to revise their school works correctly at the beginning. When the children have started rightly, they should grow and develop independently in the less of their study. At the moment, I send my children to the tuition center at the shop lots. There is a large group of students and tutors over there. Most of the tutors are ladies. For safe wise, I send my children to the tuition center by my car.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
15 Nov 10
Hi Dear Yeah, you are right, revising school work every day at home, help the students to improve very well and it is the duty of parents to help them revising, I think if parents give time to their children then there ll be no need for tutor or tuition academy. Have a good day...:)
• Philippines
15 Nov 10
I think tutors should be licensed teachers. I know a lot of tutors who are not graduates of education courses.