how we can know that a boy/girl really is into us?^^

I think that it isn't always easy as they may just be being polite and friendly, we must not confuse that or missread the signs, it isn't easy and mistakes have and always will be made as we don't always think properly, sometimes it seems people are giving off signs and they don't even know they are doing it, this could end up being embarrassng. I would like to know that a woman would constantly smile at me, would make an effort to talk to me and an effort to see me. For her to get close, to have a laugh with a good converstaion and to be a little bit playful by gently touching me when we say something funny. To be able to dance and have fun, but for a slow song to be played and for her to ask me to dance where our bodies touch, we glance into eachothers eyes and then we both move closer to kiss, if the kiss happens then that tells us all we need to know.

Well, there is no things to see how can we know about it. For me I rather than the heart and mind will speak each other for them to evaluate the feelings is real or not...

I really cant tell cause I think nothing like this has ever happened to me but maybe it will show in the things that they do for you.

If the boy or girl is into you she keeps trying to catch a glimpse of you or catch your attention.She supports you,some girls or boys support their partner only to use them but the one who really care and love you try every opportunity to get close to you.

Hi Cat I agree with you that if some one is into us the s/he would like to talk to us and ll be around us and ll do every thing what we like but I think the most important thing beside these things is always the feelings, if some one is really loving you and cares about you then you ll automatically develop some feelings for him and it would be love feelings and this is the first and last sign according to me, if some one is just showing you love and is always around you but in reality dont love you then there would be no feelings from your side for him but the real love always have some effects and these effects always reach inside of your heart, which you always feel...:) Have a nice day...:)

Hi Sweetloveforeve, This questions always come to my mind wondering if that girl really into me and i afraid to show it. At the end, when the time goes by there nothing happen between us and i just keep my feeling and let it be..pretend nothing going on. in my heart i hope this girl will notice my feeling and show me a sign because i lack of confidence when it come to relationship or love. Happy mylotting!!

Hi there Sweet Love Forever! Well, it's really hard to know especially nowadays when it seems like most people are afraid of a long-time commitment and would rather play around especially those who had bad experiences with love. I guess one tell-tale sign would be when your differences are nearly impossible to deal with but still, your significant other is willing to make the relationship work. If you're not into that stage yet, I think that given a tiny encouraging gesture like a smile, showing that you're open to communication would enable the girl or guy to make the move if they are really into you.

Hi sweetloveforeve, Most time is a person is interested in another person, he or she will find special ways of looking at or treating you differently that he or she would treat other people that are around you. The vibes are totally different when there is an attraction going on, especially if the attraction is mutual. If the attraction is a one-sided affair, then the person has his or her work cut out for them to let the person know that the are attracted to them, without doing something weird like showing up everywhere they go or calling them at crazy hours in the night.

For me it also consider but must is they will ask you into married meaning they will not allow that you that you send to other they want that you are exclusively in him.

I felt that my bf was really into me before because i can really see that he cared so much for me and always wanting to be with me. No matter how hard i pushed him away he still didn't stop wanting to see me and talk to me. He doesn't know how to compliment me but i can see that he appreciates the things i do no matter how stupid it may be.

Hi dear, You are absolutely right. If someone is having a desire into us, what you mentioned here all are right. This even we can make out from their expressions also. It will depend on person to person but the common features are almost the same. However, just being like that will not work out and so, the other person will start expressing the feeling to the 1st person. It is by his expressions, the other party will recognize that he is in need of you and wish to express his feelings. It may be desire, love or anything, but the actions doing by him is better indication that he needs you. Some people will not do or say anything and will just wait for a best time to come, like me. The time will just go on and the best time will never come. But some best time will come to someone else, and they will open their mouth, they will say, she will say yes, and they will go ahead. We will keep quiet, till the best time comes. So, don’t wait, for a better time if someone show their desire to you, speak open and enter into the life of joy and happiness. May I ask you somethig, what is in your hand (white) showing us in your avatar? Regards, Thank-s

Sweet, funny I remember this chic who kept on rubbing her behind on my front. LOL. Then I knew she was so into me. LOL. That was obvious though. Some girls just can't stand the sight of me being too sad or lonely so even if they don't really say anything they just do things that make you feel better and just hide the true feelings.

hmm if the boy/girl would to be at your side, or maybe he's a good friend, now i remember the movie "The switch" its all about friendship, a man do have a bestfriend and she's a woman, but suddenly it turns out to be they ended with a marriage. But if the boy/girl is really into you, you'll have that feeling i assume

If only I could read minds because girls are so fickle minded whenever I do a move that will make her feel that I like her she always tries to step away but whenever I will not show my feelings to her seems liknke she's showing me that she likes me I don't know why? wish I could read minds that's the question I've been asking a lot of people around. They say if the girl looks at you at pulls away her stare the time you looked at her they say the likes you and if the girl tries to check where you are by the time you left without giving her a notice that means the girl likes you. All those signs I saw that in her but every time I felt close to her she always try to hit the back of my head or slap my face. She's been a burden to me like 3 moths because she is my classmates. Now I left her and I've said mean things to her now I don't know the words I will tell her in order for me to attain forgiveness. T_T

I think it's when he/she makes an effort to see us, when he/she sacrifices his time to be with us. It's also when he/she's happy to be with us. If he/she always makes excuses then it's doubtful.

Hi sweet love forever: I agree with you on the fact that these are some of the signs that people usually do when they really are into someone. In my case, it's a little bit more difficult because, i'm too shy to express my feelings so probably you won't get it when i felt in love to someone else . I simply try to be nice with this special person. Thanks for asking us this question. Have a nice day. ALVARO

Hey , wonderful topic , You`ll find yourself to be searching for a chance to speak with him / her !

Hello Dear Friend, Thanks for bringing this up. In my case I know when a guy is into me when he would say that I'm hot. Just saying that simply means that he's attracted to me, but doesn't mean he loves me. Of course there's a big difference between being into me and falling for me. But eventually, as time goes on, they fall into me. Most of the guys are not particular with just showing signs only. They say it, they show it and they just blurt it out. Well, unless he's too insecure or shy enough to say it!