Love marriages usually end with divorce...

India
November 21, 2010 11:10am CST
This is what I have been hearing since I was a kid, "Love marriages usually end in divorce". Well I haven't experienced any such situation or haven't even seen anything related to that, I feel like its never possible when two persons are truly in love. What do you think?
4 responses
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
21 Nov 10
I see and heard about that yes some are ended their love marriage at divorce. And you know the common reason about that is money. If the couples doesn't meet he standard needs of the family especially financial in the family sure it creates problems. This is the beginning of quarrels at home and negative reasons are coming out just to depends others side. If they cannot resolve this things well for sure they ended up in separation. That is what we called Divorce.
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• India
22 Nov 10
Ya the common reason is money and even another major reason as I feel is self ego, they don't cope up with that unless its true love, because in true love you don't have any ego from either side. ~cheerio~
@annein (128)
• Singapore
21 Nov 10
if 3 elements in a relationship namely, love, respect and trust are present, then there's no point for a divorce. if you love, respect and trust your spouse, then you will live a happy married life. divorce only happen if the couple are no longer happy staying together because one or all of the elements are missing.
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@MasonM (107)
• United States
21 Nov 10
I think that if you have to get married to want to be together, then your getting married for the wrong reasons. In my opinion two people truly love each other if they are willing to live together without ever getting married, but want to as a sort of symbolism thing. To me marriage is solely legal. It shouldn't have any bearing on what two people feel towards one another, especially if their is a considerable financial difference between them.
@mbokratu (22)
• Indonesia
28 Nov 10
Before married, the couple only know about good thing of each other. After marriage, everything comes in reality. Marriage is relationship between two people with different character, habit, act, etc. After getting together in one home everyday, they will bad thing and good thing. It needs more understanding each other. If we love someone, we have to understand it. It doesn't mean that won't change bad thing in ourselves, but it can be done step by step. I we really love each other, it's not so hard to understand the couple, and discuss everything so the life of marriage runs smoothly.