sharing a secret with your boyfriends is better than with your girlfriends
@ladymaegallardo (32)
Philippines
November 23, 2010 11:36pm CST
i believe that you can't hide any secrets. but for me, i think if you wanna keep a secret and share it with someone close to you. it is better to share it with your boyfriends (friends who are boys) than girlfriends because girls can't stop but share it with others.
4 responses
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I have a couple of life's lessons to share with you.
#1. Never tell anyone anything that you don't want to someday get out.
#2. Boyfriends come and go but a good female friend is there for life. My best friend has been my best friend for over 30 years and she has never betrayedd me in any way. She also does not know alllll of the secrets I know or have. It's a matter of character.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
24 Nov 10
I agree one point with you that it all depends on character... but the fact you said "Boyfriends come and go out but a good female friend is there for life"... its totally not right to say... Guys also can be like good friend for life
my opinion is that Trust is the only important thing to be able to tell a secret...
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
24 Nov 10
If you want someone to keep your secrets, secrets only , then keep it a secret to yourself first. I agree to you to with your point up to a degree of 80 out of 100. I think boys are good at keeping secrets. They can keep it in their stomach and never take it out, I don't know about girls but I have listened that they are very bad at keeping your secrets. I have read up to this extent that a girl's biggest enemy is her best girl friend. Don't take my words seriously even I have only heard these things.
@chocobuko (117)
• Philippines
24 Nov 10
I don't think i will agree with you in this matter because I find my girl best friends to be a very good secret keeper. Besides, I feel more comfortable sharing my secrets with my girl best friends than with a boyfriend. But im not saying that boys cant be trusted, its just that in my case I can totally trust my girl friends with my secrets. I guess it all depends on how trustworthy a person is be it a boy or girl.
@Dmartinez240 (33)
• United States
24 Nov 10
I totally agree. My boyfriend is truly my bestfriend and if I ever have a secret to discuss he is the person I go to. Till this day he has not betrayed me.
