Can I forget in relationship?

@sjaswon (635)
Jamaica
November 26, 2010 2:25pm CST
I heard my friend. He listened the other girl said "I want a man have a car, rich and relationship with her." But I don't have a car and work. Can I go relationship with her?
8 responses
• China
27 Nov 10
Girls often make this kind of remarks like" I want a man with car, houses" or "I want a millionare". But actually when they truely fall in love with another man, she does not care about if the man is a millionare or is broke at the least. Therefore, if you are still not so well-off, you are lucky. Because it is a better time to find someone who truely loves you instead your money.
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@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
27 Nov 10
Smile, I like your point.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
26 Nov 10
Do you really want someone who has a list of material things for a companion? Can she provide all this for herself? Is anyone worth all that who can't do it on their own? Sorry but this is the way I approached my relationships back when I was dating. It was like, can you keep up with me? If you can't I am unable to support myself and bring you along as well.
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@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
26 Nov 10
Wow, This is good point. I like that.
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
Women have their own criteria on how they choose their partners. Apparently, you don't meet her criteria for now. If you really wanna be with her then you should get yourself a job and some wheels.
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@sjaswon (635)
• Jamaica
26 Nov 10
Sure, you are right. She needs criteria.
• Philippines
28 Nov 10
That kind of girl is a materialistic kind of person. You can't make her happy if you don't have the things she requires her man to have. Nor can she be seriously in love with you. They usually leave you for another guy who has more than what you possess.
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
27 Nov 10
Maybe you can forget about her. A girl who wants material things will only bring you misery and a hole in the pocket. But of course, if you want to have a relationship, you have to have a job just so she will get interested in you. Some girls are more practical now that's why maybe she said that, but if she loves you, it will take more than money to get into a relationship. You also have to spend more time with her.
27 Nov 10
If you really love the girl just continue to pursue her. Be patient and make her feel you are always there for her, be her best friend, that's the most important thing. Respect her and make her feel special and loved.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
26 Nov 10
WHY would you want a relationship with her??? She obviously cares more for material possessions than love!!!! I would guess that you would be miserable with her!!!! However, if you feel you just can't live without her, you can only try. It has been my experience that women change their list of "must haves" when they fall in love. Maybe in her mind her ideal man would have a fine job & nice car. However, once she falls in love, in her reality her standards could be a lot less. Anyway, once you get in a relationship, you might find that you don't even like her!!!!
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
26 Nov 10
I dont think that just because you dont have a job and dont have a car that she shouldnt be with you. One day you will have a job and a car and for sure you'll be in a relationship with somebody.