i am a mother of 1 and its not so hard he is my frist

Hi, Being a first time mother is not easy. I have experienced it before and I was having a challenging life when I first entered into motherhood, I have lot of things to learn. Basically I don;t have any experience in taking care small baby,lucky I have my mother in law to guide me all the time. Now my son has reached his toddler aged and he is more independent now. But I still need to spent time with him and I do enjoy my motherhoood despite it is kinda tiring.

I would never tell someone that it is easy to be a mother because though it is the most rewarding role that I've ever played in my life, it is also a role that requires more patience and understanding than anything else you will ever do in your life. I think for my children that it is important to both play the role of the protector and disciplinarian but also to be a friend so that as the children grow older they will realize that they really can approach me with any problems that they have in their lives.

I most definitely agree with you. First you have to be a Mom, because you are in the process of molding your child. You can't be both a best friend and a Mom when you are trying to teach your child right from wrong. Being a Mom or parent is fun, but sometimes we are forced to make those tough decisions. When your child is grown up and an adult, it will be easier to be friends with them.

It's not that easy being a first time mother. But when you get used to it you will soon get adjusted to the daily chores. It will be easier for you the next time.