what's your attitude when someone criticize you ?

China
November 28, 2010 9:04pm CST
I aways been criticized by our manager or colleague or friends sometimes. however someone is criticized kindly ,other one not . it may affect my minding upon receiving unkindly word and hurt my respect. i am very angry so much . how about you ?
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6 responses
mustread
@mustread (224)
• Bulgaria
29 Nov 10
Depends , if they criticize me because they want me to succeed I don't mind being criticized , I even appreciate it and try to do what I am told. But if it's just to make me feel bad I get angry , too. That affect me and I start to not like the guy/girl who has criticized me.
cinderellar
@cinderellar (41)
• China
30 Nov 10
thank you for your sugguestion . Maybe you are right , i can learn knowledge from criticism .i alway remind myself where is our fault and find reasonalbe battern to improve it .it makes me become stronger .hahaha~~~~
ntsundance265
@ntsundance265 (67)
• Vietnam
29 Nov 10
Life is not as you respect, so at school, or at home, you can say that to them. But at work, your manager can criticize you unkindly, you should be silence and patience. Wait for chance to revenge.
cinderellar
@cinderellar (41)
• China
8 Jan 11
thank you for your reply . this is life .
zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
29 Nov 10
I try to be humble and look at criticism as a warning that I need to improve myself. I listen with humility and value other people's advice naturally earns me some form of respect.
tash01
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
14 Aug 12
when people say bad things about me,I just stay away form that person.At one point i use to get angry at them,now i just stay away from them. People will talk no matter what you do,good are bad people talk.So i just let them talk.
hushi22
@hushi22 (4928)
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29 Nov 10
it depends on the reason and timing of the criticism. normally i find it okay. but i will say it again that would be situational.
krishnan235
@krishnan235 (189)
• India
29 Nov 10
if i criticized by my friend ,whom i wanted to be my friend, i will never mind at all.....! if any one else i wont get angry, but i used stay away from them