There are many siblings

Vietnam
November 28, 2010 11:45pm CST
I have 5 siblings: 3 younger sisters and 1 younger brother. I really feel happy about that. But I sometimes feel that this is not good. Because I have many siblings, I must share my caring, my love to all them. So, I feel bored about that. My parents are too. Moreover they love us very much. If I would get married, I love to have about 2 kids. And I'll save all my love for them.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
I have 6 siblings, 3 older sister and 3 younger ones, 1 sister and 2 brothers. While growing up, i can say it was hard to get the full attention of my parents since we are very many. But i learned and saw that my parents never give attention to only one child. They give us love equally and attend to our needs equally. No matter how hard it was but my parents handled it well. I am proud to say that not one of my siblings seeks attention because they never felt it. We are so close with each other and i believe that we love one another too.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
30 Nov 10
Yes, i am very fortunate to have parents like my parents. And by the way, i only wanted to have 3 kids. I love to have many kids but i don't think i can support so many. 3 is already enough i guess and 2 is not bad.
• Vietnam
30 Nov 10
You're very happy. Rarely parents who can do that like yours.
@Chiniona (327)
• China
29 Nov 10
Oh! It's so many. I'm the only child in my family.However, I feel lonely sometime.
• Vietnam
30 Nov 10
I believe you. I know some friends who are only one kid of their parents and they sometimes feel like you.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 Nov 10
U are very blessed to have so many siblings so enjoy every one of them. I don't have any so i admire people that do & people that appreciate them.
• Vietnam
30 Nov 10
Every situation has a different every strong. If we know how to realize the optimistic sides of it, we'll feel happy.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
29 Nov 10
Feel luckily your family have only 5 siblings! Imagine having 19 kids like the Duggar family from Arkansas! The mom is so busy with the youngest she rarely has time to spend with her other children! So is dad! I can't see how anyone could love so many children! If you don't have the time for them why bother having so many? This couple is truly crazy! All the younger kids are being raised by older siblings! They have said thye they won't mind having more! Crazy! So consider yourself lucky tkonlinevn! At least your parents have time for you and you know you are loved!
• Vietnam
30 Nov 10
Yes, I always thanks God about this. But I want to know that we should calculate to have kids if we want to care them fully.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
29 Nov 10
Do I get it right that loving is some kind of ambivalent for you?
• Vietnam
30 Nov 10
As me, love must impress by actions. So, if you have too many siblings, your caring to them wouldn't be full.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Jan 11
I enjoy it that we are 5 siblings in the family and all girls. My parents brought us up well. They were able to send us all through college and now all of us are married and some are office employees like me while the others are housewives. When we gather at our parents house, where some of them lives, we are all so happy! You could see the happiness in my parents' faces! We eat so heartily when everybody is gathered at the table. I just love having a big family!
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
30 Nov 10
That is a large family compared to mine. My brother was 5 years younger than me and he was my only sibling. I have two children also who are almost 6 years apart in age. I also have a stepson who is only three months older than my daughter.
5 Dec 10
We should be grateful since we have a lot of siblings that you can love and care equally. Not all people are blessed with a lot of siblings where they can be their best friends. So we should take it in a positive manner, and make them feel loved and appreciated that they truly deserved which I believe you are doing. Eventually,you will feel how important they are to you because they will also make you feel loved and appreciated.