Fallen out of love
By sammy14
@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
December 1, 2010 1:35am CST
Much have been told about love including how can you tell when you love a person but I have not read about things being told about when can you say when you do not love a person anymore or what are the manifestations that you can see in a person if he/she has fallen out of love..
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
2 Dec 10
I’ve experienced that in the past and I would say that the first sign is that those little quirks you found cute in the beginning start to irritate the heck out of you! I found myself starting to think about being with somebody else, not anyone in particular but I would have subconscious fantasies about meeting my soul mate which indicated to me that I no longer believed my partner was Mr Right. I no longer felt excited by his presence and nine times out of ten I preferred spending time away from him. The situation became worse the longer I stuck it out; sometimes the signs are there and it would be so much better for all concerned if we paid attention to them. After all when the feelings are gone it is almost impossible to bring them back...
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
I agree with you paula and it happens whether we like it or not.. we cannot change our feelings.. and it is unfair for the other party if we still cling to the relationship.. and we better communicate it to him/her the earlier rather than later because it will cause too much pain especially when you keep that feeling any longer..
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@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
1 Dec 10
Well i think you are no longer interesting and she/he stop giving you attention and the feelings slowly fade away and at the end you are just some two people that have no reason being together . Normally it starts from the one side and the other suffer but well we can't do anything about it .
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
1 Dec 10
You have fallen out of love if you don't care for the person anymore. It's that or you care for her like you care for your friends and nothing more. You'll figure it out once you feel it.
