The unforgivable

I had a close friend once. She became jealous of my relationship with my hubby. I don't know why. Nor did I truly care. One day she called and was saying things about him. I didn't put up with that and it was the last time I spoke to her. It's been almost 2 years. I have forgiven her. I just haven't found it important to renew the friendship. As for your situation, all you can do is try! I wish you good luck, and hope it works out the way you want!

hello suggar! a close friend of mine had done some very unforgivable things against me. It hurt me so much because i thought he was my true friend. TO think that i gave all my support, understanding and help to him when he needed it and when i turned my back on him, he stabbed me in the back, just because he thought i had new friends and i would then desert him. He propagated a lot of lies against my person and reputation.He maligned me so much that i could have build a case against him and won due to strong evidence and witnesses. I did not mind the allegation so much as the deed being done by him. I could have just laugh it off if it was told by someone else, but my best friend? it hurt like "H***". He actually did it to me thrice, maligned me and did things behind my back which almost me cost me my job because of his lies. But i forgave him, even before he asked forgiveness. Coz i believe that to be able to move on, i have to forgive someone who hurt me so i could let go and start anew. I forgave him but i will never gave him another opportunity to hurt me again. I never did get close to him again, nor even talked to him. I don't mind his business and when i do see him, if it can't be helped, i just act cordial and speak with him minimally but that was it. If i am the one you are asking forgiveness from..You are forgiven sugar. i forgive you. whatever it is that had happened was in the past and cannot be redeemed. you know, forgiving is not the art of forgetting the pain. It is a renewal of one's willingness to be hurt again..

like how the saying goes, "just do it". it can be difficult or uncomfortable, that's true. but imagine yourself finally getting out of that "tunnel" and into the light--feels good, doesn't it? true friends are really worth keeping and loving. if you believe in your heart that you and your friend are worth every little time, memories, and love you've spent together, don't let past mistakes or bad events keep yourselves apart. but let it serve as both your lessons. if i was the other person who was hurt and being asked for forgiveness, and i know in my heart that you still deserve my friendship, then i'd tell you "i have never given up on you, so when can we have a cup of coffee again?" good luck!

In this day and age if you know hte person's name you can most likely find them on the internet in some fashion or way. If I was told from years past I would be surprised but thankful that they finally said it was okay as I felt like on my shoulders I did something wrong when in reality I believed I never did.

We say sorry often times cuz of the guilt the wrong deed brings us. It depends on the extent an individual can tolerate those wrong doings.

You meant if I were your friend, and I had done something totally unforgivable? What should I tell you in the internet or in general writing? I might simply say sorry, and ask your forgiveness. That is the only way I can express it, no more words.

i might forgive you^^ i know that you are a sweet and honest person and if looked for me to say sorry is bcs you really are sorry. about me well there was a guy that i met online that i really loved him and we were best friends and he started to ignore me and be mean to me and i never understood why. also a girl said a lie about me and he doubted about my word and i know that he wont say sorry to me bcs for him maybe i was nothing bcs he was so in love for that girl and now they are lovers so i know he wont say sorry to me but i just wish he could say sorry that he saw i never lied and that he should had believe me and that should had never make me cry and ignore me like he did. like today i didnt know if should greet him happy birthday but i did. even he ignored me last time we talked but he added me for a reason so i greet him anyway. if he doesnt say neither a thank you is ok im not expecting nothing anymore.