why???
By riannon22
@riannon22 (7)
Australia
December 1, 2010 10:33pm CST
why do your so called friends stabb you in the back i dont understand why...they act like there your friend then next thing you hear is someone else saying other stuff about you that they've said.theres no need for it if your my friend your my friend but theres absoulutly no need for the stabbing you let your hair down and tell them a deep an dark secret because you TRUST them but in return you get stabbing its not very nice :(
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8 responses
@bargavashok (174)
• India
3 Dec 10
Its sad and shocking to see or even think of people like that . But I am a little relieved that in my life I have not encountered people like that yet . Also I think if we think other have stabbed our back , then may be we would have stabbed them sometime knowingly or by mistake . If I got such a friend who did this to me , I will confront him by face and ask what his problem is with me . Because , all the friends I got are really close to me I wouldn't think anyone doing like this to me . Still if one of my friends does , that would imply he must have got some heavy grudge on me without me knowing . So I will naturally want to know what that grudge would be .
@jugsjugs (12967)
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2 Dec 10
I have noticed that there are alot of people that are like this out there as well as the people that you have known alot of years.The people that you think as well as trust with things are the people that stab you in the back.I tend now to keep myself to myself and never say too much to anyone about all the things that are going on in my life.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
2 Dec 10
You find out who your true friends are when times are tough. A true and loyal friend would support and be there for you instead of trying to find ways to benefit from your pain. it's better to see these people from who they are in the beginning of your relationship with them. When you share too much with them, it's more devastating to be hurt by them.
@marga1433 (90)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
just be vigilant... you maybe have chosen friends who are not true to the friendship you offer. Let them go...
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Hello riannon,
Do you believe in the quotation that says " Best friend is our worst enemy"?
Being trustworthiness is an admirable behavior and a human factor. Too much trust nor too much to anything is not good. Have reservation to every dealings we have to the people that surrounds us even to the closest relative. Even to a husband towards his wife.
This kind of friend of yours should be gradually avoided in a manner of not hurting ego. It is a matter of choice now. It is your choice to choose whom you gonna make friend.
Friendship is not something to pick on. (Now were friends later were half friends)ahhh. It is rather an spontaneous, natural involvement with each other.
Lets gonna make virtual friends in here.
Mylotters are positive, constructive back biter.
@joshuachu13 (260)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Well, then maybe they're not your real friends right? It's hard to earn friends here especially in mylot, nowadays people only want to use you, to get something for you for their egocentric schemes. To be popular, to ruin lives, it's the mindset of people today, or our environment that makes people like that. Remember that it's normal in this sinful world =). That's why one of the greatest treasures that you can have in this world are friends, that'll help you in times of hardships. They'll never give up on you, once you find them, don't ever let them go . Stab them in your heart, hehe I pray that you will find one =). If you do then that's good =)
Happy mylotting,
joshuachu13
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Friends are meant to deceive you. You had better be ready for that the next time you make one so you won't be disappointed in the end.
