Do you have some feeling of doubt to the person you trusted?
@primeaque86 (8105)
Philippines
December 2, 2010 6:53am CST
Join me in my official mylot topic for the week: Do you have some doubt to the person you trusted?
Or do you able to trust a person completely? What do you feel when you have doubt? Does it bother you all the time?
In the other hand, if you know that you are honest and trustworthy, but people cant still trust you, would you give up? Would you feel tired or something...
Lotters, join me in seeking for the answer here...
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12 responses
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Oh? This browser could not really identify any emoticons, so? Oh i am sad really. Can you come again my B? I really want your opinion you know, but you seemed tired drafting some response or something, no just kidding. I hope i can read those emoticon this time. Up now, took some nap.? Well i hope you are here, i was not able to do this in the morning. Hello meluan, and why were you dreaming? Thank you for the response here. I hope we can play here a little tonight? Are you trusting all of us here?:-);-) see you
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I want to forget about my nightmare last night... For sure i am not the subject here. And if i do, i was not the person who speaks about my doubt, got it? Mylot has been our home for a year now, and i guess you know how transparent i am... If there is some grounds of doubt, i am done telling my side with honest heart. Perhaps it just hard to trust completely., as in really... What do you think? Even i you say several times the phrase "i do trust you" yet there is always room for doubts in our heart.:'(
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Dec 10
hi prime I do not give my trust out to many people as so many try to be honest but eventually failSo for me I trust my son with all my heart and mybest friend too. All others I wait to see first before giv ing my trust as for me I have never had anyone ever say they did not trust me.You know what if they still do not trust me and I have always been trustworthy then perhaps it is them who are not to be trusted not
me at all.I would feel suspicious of them.
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Hi there my friend hatley, you are right, our best friend and the most trustworthy people in our lives is our family, our mother, father, sister, brother or son or daughter. But it is even so hurtful to know that there are also family members who will betray you in the end my friend, i guess that is the most painful than betrayed by your friends or partners... Somehow other peole worth our trust, but we must put limitation... Many have said that we could not really put our entire trust to the person, we must remain something for ourselves... In the other hand, if there is some people who will not trust us, then we know we are trustworthy, it is not our lost then... Thank you for sharing my friend and happy mylotting.:-);-)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Dec 10
Once I trust you , I trust you fully. But once you break my trust , you Never really get my full trust again. You can say you're sorry and I can forgive you but I will never fully trust you ever again. A small piece of me will hold back and see if my trust will be broken like the first time. If People can't trust that I am telling the truth , then I don't talk to them.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Thank you for that honest answer sarah, maybe that would happen to all of us, that our innate nature that once we are betrayed by the people we have trusted, we could not trust them completely for the second time around although we have forgiven them already. Thank you sarah my friend and happy weekend.:-);-)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
hello bro,
i am one of those people who is transparent.
like what you see is what you get.
I don't care if people trust me or not.
Once i made a promise i always try to commit myself to whatever promised that i made.
So,if that person did not trust me,it's not my problem anymore.
If i trust someone and believed in his/her words and action and after that he/she betrays me..again,my opinion is..it's not my fault,it's not my sin.
I easily trust people esp my friends,trust in the sense that i know it won't cause me in danger.(of course i am not that stupid to jump in a situation)
I was been cheated by friends and people i trusted.
Like my recent experience,i trust one of my godchild.
She asks for a few bottles of perfume to sell (i am into perfume business),and then my godchild did not pay me back or did not pay the items that she ordered.
ok,she cheated me,because i trusted her...it's not my fault then,and it's not my sin.(as simple as that)
But in some aspects i just don't trust everyone (i have my basis with other things,esp when it's a personal matter 
)
have a good day dear brother
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have a good day dear brother@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Hello sis, how are you tonight? Oh yes, i can justify that. You are a transparent person, i can see that the way you share or response in any of my post. You, what is good for being transparent, may people can trust you, because they know that you will always speak for the truth. And, in addition transparent person easily trust somebody, i am also a transparent person Sis Jai, what i say is what i think. And i easily trust people, but only if i see any basis for trusting them... Because it is really hurtful to be betrayed by the person you trusted even you deepest secret. You are right there, personal matters is another crucial issue, and we should choose people to share it with... I am sorry that your godchild cheat you Sis jai, yes, it was her fault, mistake and sin not yours, you will never regret from it, but she will... Thank you for sharing sis.:-);-)
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@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
Sorry for some of my typo here sis, hehehe. And, anyway, i mean, there above, that if you are a transparent person, many or several people would easily put trust in you because they know that you will always speak for the truth, and people like us too easily trust person, but we are wise in some ways as well... With several experiences that i had before, i know the qualities of people whom i can trust, with certain limits of course... Happy mylotting is jai...:-);-)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
precisely dear bro,there are certain limit as we've learn from people who betray us.
And now i've learned not to trust 100%.
People around us are the one who make us changed,from being good to rude.
It only hurts to think that people we love are the one who betray us...so bad
Have a great weekend
Have a great weekend
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
Hello Prime,
Even though i have provided some secrets or problems to that person, i doubt he or she can really be trusted. because even to those people who had known each other for a long time, trust can still be broken and betrayal is still imminent. too bad for me, i didn't have that level of trust since i always experience fraud when iwas a kid being a victim all the time. If people can't trust me, then so BEAT it.1 person likes this
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I understand that letran, that was your experience. Does anyone say that never tell your deepest secret to anyone except for your parents or family members? Somehow, even that you are very close to each other for a very long time, but then, there are some bad extend that he or she would back fight or spread your secrets to some people. That is very bad for your part right? Trust is like a fragile base as what life said, that i true letran., and once it is broken, we could not make it looks back to its original form... Me, i hardly trust too. And that base on my bad experiences too with the people i trusted before, i trust now for few people who are deserving of it. Thank you so much for this and happy mylotting.:-);-)
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
2 Dec 10
If I have a doubt with the person I trusted then it would mean that I don't trust him at all. Where is trust there when there is doubt?
If people don't trust me, then i don't have to beg for them to trust me. They'll sooner or later realize that when they get to know me. When people don't seem to trust you at all, it's because there is a ground for them not to and not just because they don't feel trusting you.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I am sorry to hear this my friend, i can just relate the whole idea you are telling us here... Then when the woman i love have something like doubt in me, then does it mean she is not trusting me at all? Well, that is jus a perfect situation. I know she trust me. You are just so right as i think that idea here, if you have doubt then you are not trusting that person in some way. You know this trust thing is really hard to explain. We can hardly put conclusion to this really. There is another situation, when you are already trusting that person, then along the way you see grounds for having a doubt, then what we call this? I appreciate for you wonderful idea... Thank you so much for sharing and happy mylotting, see you...:-);-) ps, i know that you are happy now with the people you dear the most, wish you the best luck... All the time.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
3 Dec 10
trust is something that has to be earned... it is not an easy task to earn trust from a person but it is very easy to destroy it... i won't doubt a person that i have trusted completely... but if that person just betray my trust once, then i won't be able to trust that person again for the rest of my life... take care and have a nice day...
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Yes, trust is very hard to earn, that is a fact, but it is very easy to destroy it. And the destruction would never be fix, it just like earning our income, its hard to earn but easy to spend.. Right? Or just like a clean sheet of paper, but once you will put even some little poin from ink on it, then it would just like looking scratch. Thank you and happy mylotting.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
3 Jul 11
I tend to trust people very easily. I believe people should be given the benefit of the doubt for the most part. However there are certain types of people that I do not trust and would never trust. I believe that I am a very trustworthy person, however if someone was to not believe I was and was to want to fight over it I'd just let them believe what they wish, those who matter to me trust me and vice versa.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
3 Dec 10
I used to have complete in the person I love. However, he betrayed me. Even though he chose to continue to be with me, I have lost some trust in him. It does not bother me anymore because I leave everything to God. I have a stronger trust and faith in God than in human beings who are fickle-minded.
If people do not trust me, I can't say anything. I just have to do what I normally do and gain the trust through time and action.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Wonderful! That is the right thing to do. The fact is, even the person is trustworthy, you could not expect him or her to be perfect all the time. That is why, we should ask God to guide us all the time, our last and faith must be to God, i mean are full trust and faith should be given to him, because He is the only one who keep it and would never betray it. Thank you for sharing and happy mylotting.:-);-)
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I never give a doubt to a person i love because it shows you don't trust him and if you love it will accompanied by trust. This is the thing that one time we have tackled by my partner and he got angry because he told me that i'm always at doubt. If i have any then he told me to go straight to him and ask about what i'm doubt so he will clear it. Then this is the time that i need to trust a person that whom i love so much. It is very important to trust and no doubt in relationship.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
"Just trust and no doubt" that is good my friend. Well i can imagine that you are really happy together. Trust is the key factor of a happy and long lasting relationship... Wish you all the best...
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Just like meluan says here, if we are smart enough, do not obviously show to someone that you are not trusting or have a doubt on him or her. Keep to yourself your last doubt and prove it. Because we could not trust "no one" it is our innate nature to be good, but we are not perfect though. We commit mistake sometimes that is why we must be careful all the time.:-)
@monty21 (119)
• India
3 Dec 10
Yes, i have feeling of doubt on the person i trust completely. The reason is that i have been cheated on many times by my trusted friends. Nonetheless, i have very good friends, but i don't trust them completely. It is my experience getting from my closed ones. In other hand, i am also not a honest and trustworthy person. If i am like this, i can't survive a single day.
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
I can understand that my friend, but one thing, do not let that doubt conquers you, as that would thwart you to be completely happy. Just always be careful.. Thank you for sharing.:-);-)
