To be or not to be .....

carpediem the presenter I think is an idiot as people cannot be put in cubby holes like that, those are two extremes and most of us dislike either one. I would like to be short as I am short, and interesting and have just enough money to pay my bills and live in an apartment here in California. I do not want to tall or boring and in real life things are not just black or white but all shades in between. the presenter only wants to shake others up and make it interesting but totally untrue.

To be honest I would not see it this way, as long as I am happy and healthy I would work through other flaws.

Unfortunately in this world of ours it is always not possible have all the ideal traits and situations.If you have one thing then you don`t have the other.However some people do have almost all the best things in life and also the characteristics of an ideal man,well almost.Life is full of contradictions and not everybody can aspire for the middle path, as you have put it.However it is better to be well-off,ie having enough in the kitty to sustain oneself without scrounging and fighting for survival and leading a hand-to-mouth existence.

when you say interesting? is this the type of guy that can be considered and lined up with the Actors in Hollywood? if yes, i would rather choose him. since i can make lots of money with my interesting assets, my face and my height. but if circumstances failed and i would still be ended POOR, then i would choose the short, boring but rich. i would not be tag line as boring then, since i have money that girls can looked up to. LOL! i can also use my money, to change the way i look. since height would still be matter, but the weight in my pocket would most matter to anyone. LOL!. but still, whatever would be the choice most important is the attitude on having what has been given unto you. :)