How deep is your love to your partner?

Philippines
December 4, 2010 8:31pm CST
Can you measure the love for your partner? Honestly,I cannot measure the love I have for my husband because that's how I'm deeply in love with him. Corny it may sound but that's the truth. Simply because he made me feel I'm special. He's been a good husband and a responsible father to my kids and that is more than enough for me. What's more,he made me closer to God and that's the best thing he has ever done to me. How about you mylotty friends and members,how deep is your love for your partner?
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23 responses
@mbokratu (22)
• Indonesia
5 Dec 10
I have been living with my husband for 15 years, so i can't imagine to live without him. I can't express my love in words. He is my husband, friend, father and partner. I love him deeply.
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• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi mbokratu! That's great! Wow,15 years is so long and I'm happy your love for your husband stays deep!
• India
5 Dec 10
I truly love a person who has made me strong in relation of 4 months. Capable of handling any situations, so much of love he has given me. I dont look for any options now. Hats of to my love. I try measuring love but I dont think it is possible to measure love. Love cannot be measured at all.But when a person can do anything or everything to you, the love itself is immeasurable.
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• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello ganeshprabhuk! It's good to know that in 4 months time your love for your partner is that deep already because you said it's immeasurable,I guess you just had true love and I am happy for you!
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
I, too, cannot measure how I love my husband! We are like one team, even though we have individual identities. Together or apart, I know I can count on him, I can confide to him, and can connect with him emotionally or physically. We celebrate on our every wins and console each other when a loss occurs. I love him so much, that much I can't find any words to describe it! :D
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Thanks so much, mtrguanlao! I am happy for you, too. Let's put our arms around our loved ones and be there for them. :D
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi carolobis! Yes,a relationship works as a team,win as a team and looses as a team. What's imporatant is you both are there for each other. I'm happy you both are doing well and love each other so much!
@KMaroon (266)
• India
6 Dec 10
Hi mtrguanlao Well, I think depth of love cannot be measured and my love towards my husband is the same as you said, my husband too is a good husband and responsible father to my children and what does a woman want than a loving and caring husband and I always thank God for that.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi KMaroon! We are both lucky to have a husband just like ours. They deserved to be loved that much! Happy mylotting!
@Ritmon (118)
5 Dec 10
no i can't measure my love because i love unconditionally.....and i think if anyone can love some one unconditionally he/she can't measure his/her love....because he/she totally sink into it..
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• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi Ritmon! I am glad to know that your love to your loved one can't be measured,that only shows how deep your love for him/her is!
@jshazy (1)
• China
5 Dec 10
Everything will become dull after marriage, the most important is that both sides happy together!
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• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Dull jshazy? What do you mean?
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Why others are still sweet and feel deeply inlove to their husband until the end of their life? I wish i could feel the same as you.. I think i feel like this because sometimes the problem was too much and i cannot see the importance of partnership. I have tried to make my life be simpler than before but i still feel the burden of problems that wrap around us. So I cannot measure how much i love him the deep or the meaning of love in him the same as before. How I wish to love him more... but i still love him as a husband and a father of my children.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello mods196621! I know how you feel because you and my sister have the same things that's been going through. Sometimes problems make a relationship tough and grew stronger but there are also problems where a relationship could fade,it will depend on you and your husband on what side do you want to be. Luckily,my sister and his hubby made it through and I am happy for them. Put God in your relationship and I am sure you both will make it!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
5 Dec 10
It is hard to measure how deep a love you can have for your partner. you both may seem to measure the worth in different ways. It is a good feeling to know you have a deep and abiding love for your partner. that is enough to satisfy me!
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello sender621! I'm glad I satisfy you with how much feelings I have for my husband! I am pretty sure if you can't say how much deep you love your partner now,in time you will.
@vicereine (451)
• United States
5 Dec 10
I don't think I am able to measure how much I do love my boyfriend at the moment. I do love him dearly but to put love into some kind of measurement is very difficult. I know that I would gladly follow him to the ends of the earth and beyond because that is how much I love and trust him. I suppose the only thing is that I hope he loves me as deeply as I do love him. For me that is the hardest thing to judge is if someone truly does love you. I have been burned many times and it is hard for me to trust but I have finally given in and I can only hope that as deeply as I love my boyfriend he will love me the same.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello my friend vicereine! I'm sure he loves you the same way you do for as long as you hold on to your relationship well. If you show your affection to him,I'm sure he will too,you deserve it!
@Jiabsa (511)
• India
5 Dec 10
You are very lucky because you got a husband who is very caring, loving and understanding. My husband is not like yours. I know that he loves me very much. But..once he get angry, he will become a different person and starts to scold me without any reason. He can't control himself. I don't know why he is like this. It is always a bitter experience in my life.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello Jiabsa! I've heard many cases just like yours and I could say you are a strong woman. Just pray Jiabsa,I know in God's time he will change. I guess for now,try to avoid anything that will make him angry. Stay strong.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
For the past 16 years the same feeling I have with my wife, her caring, her affection and sharing with me. Added are our children who also give strength to our relationship being husband and wife.. Thank God for giving me such wife and children.. me is the one used to my wife to close to God. see you around
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello my friend visavis! I admire husbands who stayed for their wives for a long time and did not even change the love they had for their wives! Wishing you more years to share in your married life!
• India
5 Dec 10
no i cant measure the love for my partner.but i do very much love to her.my lover also loves me so much.i am deeply loving her.i cant be tell how much i am loving to her.my whole life is for her.by gods grace we are still did not quarell to each other.in the world any lover cant be tell that how deeply h loves to her lover.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi SHAFI949! I am happy to know that both of you are not yet encountering any quarrels but you know sometimes when we quarrel,we learn from it and that makes our relationship more mature. Happy mylotting!
@back2guw (128)
• India
5 Dec 10
ya that's true love cannot be measured by any means nor pain can be..if my GF asks how much i love her i feel like what kind of a dumb question is this,everyone knows no one can answer this in a more positive manner..it's better to say i love you more than you love me... lolz :)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello back2guw! For me it's not a dumb thing to ask how much you love your girlfriend,sometimes girls need to hear it from their partner,we do! It's a sweet thing to say you love her more than she does,let her hear it!
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
My love for my partner is unconditional. He's my world. He's my inspiration. He's everything to me. He is my brother, my best buddy, a lover. He is in my heart and in my soul. He's the only one for me.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hi genebeb! You just made me smile! I feel for you because we both have the same feeling for our partner in life!
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hi, I know what you're talking about. I'm happy for you have a wonderful husband. We cannot really measure just how much we love the person we love right now. Me, I can say that I love my boyfriend more than anything else. I love God, my family, and next to them is my boyfriend.
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hello autumndreamer! Yes,i do have a wonderful husband! You are really right,our love for someone else can't be measured especially if you have fallen too much. And you are again very much right that our love for GOD should be above for anything else! If we put God first in a relationship,all will become well as always!
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
5 Dec 10
8/10 What, I love the guy and everything, but I feel like I could love him more. And on a scale of one to ten, I'd give it an eight. I do love him truly and deeply but well, I think I have the capacity to love more, and I'm sure he'll get there someday.
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hi Rhazelle! Of course you can love more,I guess all of us can love more for a person. As time goes by in your relationship,you will both undergo success and problems in life which will make your relationship better and love each other more. Enjoy what you both have now.
@hanni711 (243)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
For me, true love is unconditional. I just love my husband for what he is and not for what he made of himself. We are both committed to our marriage vows and I am bound to fullfil it because I love my husband.
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Hello hanni711! I agree with you,true love is really unconditional! In an unconditional love,one tends to give and give without any expectations in receiving anything in return.
• United States
5 Dec 10
After living the livelihood that I have and all the bad experiences I have had int he world. I too can agree that there is no measuring the love I have for my boyfriend as he has really shown me that love really exists in this world. We have been living together now for 5 years and I truly would not be standing if it were not for him. He is such a wonderful, respectful and caring man. I would not trade him for anything in this world.
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hello my friend hardworkinggurl! You made me smile! I like what you said that you will not trade your boyfriend for anything in this world,it only shows how much you love him! You've been together now for five years and that's long enough for a strong relationship,I am happy for both of you!
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
how deep is your love to your partner? yeah, a question that for me is so hard to answer.me myself don't know and can't answer the question.because for me, love to my partner is unanswerable,immeasurable.God knows how much i love my partner yet, it can't be question coz there's no answer for the the question how much or how deep is your love.
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hello jorn87! I geuss you've already answered it because you said it's immeasurable and I'm happy you feel that way to your partner!
@cryox92 (168)
• Macedonia
5 Dec 10
I'm afraid i still haven't found the right girl for myself, I'm too young for it anyway. But my feelings for the girl which i am in a relationship with are unfortunately starting to fade. I've been trying everything in order to get that spark between us going again but with no success. I hope that things will change, but we'll see :) .
• Philippines
5 Dec 10
Hi cryox92! Sad to hear you are not getting well with your girlfriend,I know you can sort and talk things out for your relationship to work well. I would suggest pray for it cryox,if still it won't work between the two of you,God has a better girl for you for sure! Since you've said you're still young,don't rush,enjoy love!