A girlfriend or a partner who always nag..

@sammy14 (834)
Philippines
December 6, 2010 3:15am CST
Do you have a girlfriend or a partner who always nag... How do you feel about it.. Do you enjoy it as some say it is a sign of love! Others enjoy it because they feel that they are being given a lot of attention... on the other hand how about those who are not enjoying it.. Does it affect you and your work, your life as a whole... How do you deal with the situation when she starts acting especially in front of your friends or other people dear to you... Do you have plans of breaking with with her or filing a divorce...
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4 responses
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
7 Dec 10
I can't imagine myself on that situation and good thing my boyfriend is not like that. Because if ever my boyfriend will be like that then our argument will be never ending as in forever. I won't ignore him just like that or else it is something that I am tolerating it to the extent that he will abuse it. Maybe I will do something or think anything that will make him shut his mouth.
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
Well good for you and your bf... I haven't seen a guy who is a nagger.. but girls...lol
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
women are born as natural naggers. lol!
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
whoa... i agree with you.. 100% buddy...lol..
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
hello sammy14! i think nobody would want a partner who always nag at you. It would be like you're being suffocated literally by the constant nagging. Showing your love and nagging is very different at all. when you love someone, you may remind her/him of something that he/she might have forgotten or sometimes treat them specially, but nagging is simply constantly pestering, badgering your partner. you may want him to do something or you just want his attention but it all comes down to plain nagging which is hurtful to a relationship. yes, when you're partner seems to be at it constantly, you could not help but think about separating with him/her just to be able to breath. A nagger is a poison to a partner's well-balanced sanity and serenity.
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
ummmm... let me ask you this.. are u a lady.. if you are and coming from a lady i suppose that i am right! naggers should be dispatched off quickly as they affect evrything about you... including your life... you need a break...
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
6 Dec 10
Actually if the situation is like that, try to check ourself and ask ourself - why she always nag on me, after you check and ask, then you findout the answer. In such case you can know if you or something the problem of nagging. Nagging is not a sign of love instead it is selfish and insecurity. If you are right try to talk here in a very loving talking... see you around
@sammy14 (834)
• Philippines
7 Dec 10
I agree with you that nagging sometimes is caused by some reasons which could be coming from the other party and i suppose that both parties should talk among themselves on how to resolve it... but how about if the nagging is not caused by some reasons but shall we say.. a normal thing for the other.. what will you do!