Flirting
By Toni
@toniganzon (77227)
Philippines
December 8, 2010 10:09pm CST
When you flirt with people what do you expect to get in return? Do you expect that person to fall for you or you're just having fun?
I admitted to having flirted online but never offline. Flirting is normal and fun when you're just chatting but there's nothing serious to it I think, unless you want to take it to another level. I don't have intentions when I flirt online, it's just for fun conversations!
How about you? Have you been flirting with people online and do you have any intentions in mind when you do?
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9 responses
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Hello toni,
Flirting offline is the thing which i cannot think i can do it. Even from not doing guys really is after me. hehehe. But i did online lately. I decided to do it just to reciprocate the guys' flirtatious lines. He got me hook and nothing to say 'coz the truth was i don't know how to respond hehehehe. But i felt fond on the guy but am doing it rest assured that i know the fact that he cant reach me by all means. Am i unfair in here? I cant speak for the guys side. But i am totally enjoying from his words. He can make me laugh and it feels good to the extent that i can sense that my brain is producing endorphins from being joyful and elated. Flirting online is just temporary, we can never be serious on it unless you choose to exert big effort to go to the other level. Now am trying to initiate flirting online but ended up offline hehehe. It is a talent indeed.
Toni could teach me how.
Thanks!
Be happy always!!!
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@toniganzon (77227)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
I sure do hope I can teach you how to do it offline friend, but I'm only good at online thing hahhaa!
I'm glad what you have shared here and i hope you can be more open ahaha!
@sardonyx777 (450)
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
Hi there!
Oh please do not teach me offline Iloilo is far from where i am.hehehe
I wanted the online thing for exploration. hahahaha but hoping it will lead me no harm. ouch. How open i am now my friend?
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
10 Dec 10
I see flirting as something harmless. it is a way for us to break the ice and let someone know we are interested. When I flirt with someone, i do hope for a positive reaction. having someone flirt back is a nice expectation, but if it doesn't happen, then it doesn't.1 person likes this
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
I don't flirt online but I do flirt offline. I find it much interesting to flirt with someone on real life since you see the reaction of the person immediately. Most of the time they won't have a chance to think about their reaction so most of the time they won't be able to lie about their reaction. The reason why I don't flirt online is because you'll never know who your flirting with. You'll never know if the person your flirting with is a potential stalker
or even worse a serial killer.
or even worse a serial killer.
@toniganzon (77227)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Ahahah but I won't have to meet that person at all, coz the flirting is only online and there's no guarantee that the person you're flirting with offline is not a serial killer too!
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
My idea of that is can a guy flirt also how? Anyway in your way Andyvil little bit danger because might be the guy is not good and may result of un-necessary situation and result. Anyway just be careful... and choose the good one LOL see you around
@sweetmary86 (822)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
i do flirt but usually in a discreet way. unlike others who take it out to the open and take it to another level. flirting could be fun but im more cautious now but for sure i just flirt with someone i really like but still gives me an awkward feeling.
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@marcmm (1804)
• Malaysia
10 Dec 10
Hmm... Since I'm married I haven't been flirting either online or offline. But when I'm still single, yes I do. Usually I just do it for fun of it but not that deep until it get down to serious relationship. I always prevent flirting that will lead to serious reltionship. I enjoy the companion only. Having someone to talk to and to go out with, it just fun. I do not expect anything in return though. Just enjoy the companionship.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
10 Dec 10
LOL I don't chat on line with unknown persons, i don't have any YM id, my husband has, some time i chat with my son and daughter using his id..
so no question of flirting..
nice discussion, happy mylotting
cheers
kalyni
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Dec 10
No.... i have not flirted online but i wish. I think we should be good friends before flirting but it's too hard to find out sometimes. Again, she may be disturbed by my way of chatting and an immediate break up may take place. So, it's better to be friend rather than hurt someone. You don't know what she think about you although i have no intention.... Have a nice day.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
9 Dec 10
Yes I think normal in a woman to flirt online because one of my friend always telling about her story about flirting, but when the other side asking for eyeball she did not agree, playing safe... What do you think there is danger about online flirting, I think so nothing... see you around








