one-sided love?

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
December 10, 2010 7:44pm CST
are you one of them? how will you define it? by yourself, and by your experience. did you ever experience this? loving someone without receiving any response.
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8 responses
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
Hi asliah! May be infatuation, I have experienced having a crush on someone but since I am not an aggresive girl, I just kept it to myself. Love though is different since it can only be experienced when you are in a relationship. I haven't had a one-sided love but if ever I am into this kind of relationship, I would prefer to end it immediately. There is no use loving someone when your feelings are not being returned, it's too painful...
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
11 Dec 10
Agreed Unconditionally !!!!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
Sometimes i can say that our relationship is one sided, but my bf would always defend that im wrong. And that he loves me more than i love him. I can say that sometimes because i feel that he is not showing his love to me anymore. But maybe i am just thinking this because we are both too busy most of the time and ignore the affections given by my bf already.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
11 Dec 10
This is just infatuation or crush developed during the teenage pattern... Nobody would stay in one-sided love for more than 5 or 6 months, because it's fruitless.. Think practical and i always suggest not to continue in any kind of one sided love thing, because it will cause the downfall... In my case, no i don't do such thing.. I believe in numbers !! I always need results...
@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
11 Dec 10
yes..unless and loser. It always happen to me..what exactly girl looking for? is it body type? good looking? i really don't get it.
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
if i don't feel that he also love me. then i would rather ask him or confront him if he loves me.if not then better to quit.
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
yes, that I have ever experienced when I love someone but the person does not respond / respond. and it made my heart annoyed and want to know why he did not respond to what I did to him. or she does not like the attitude or behavior toward us? may be so. but do not give up because the people we love not only him but many, and a countless. provided that we are trying to get it and we can love what it is.
@arriefa (75)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 10
It happened to me so many times ha ha of course it so hurts but later I learn that that's life and when I started to feel attracted to a guy, I would learn his reaction. If he shows negative response, I better go before I fall too deep.
• Philippines
11 Dec 10
Yeah, I thought I loved my best friends older brother but he doesn't want us to have any relationship because his afraid of hurting me and ruining our families close ties......now, I realized that I wasn't really in love with him in a lovers way after all, since he didn't see me as a woman but a child and I honestly didn't think of getting physical with him