should you dump your husband for a married man?

I might sound hypocrite but my answer is no.Im a woman who uses my head and my heart in an equal balance.I might have committed mistakes and wrong decisions in life but I never gamble in a game that my loss is so visible even to a blind mice.

There are decision you have to stick to because its the right thing to do. You decided to marry that person in the first place and whatever your reason for marrying stick to that decision. Involvement with married guys will always cause you pain not to mention the pain you will inflict to the legal spouse. It just isn't right. And is the person willing to dump his/her partner for you? What about the children?