father and son.

Iwould certainly not ask my son to obey me in that respect because being gay or heterosexual is not something anyone can change anymore that if I wanted to become a man instead of a woman or change my race. I suppose, depending on his age, the son can hide from such a father that he has a BF (it does happen with girls that have BFs that parents don´t like). OR he can tell his father to mind his business. What I mean to say is that the son should not obey his father in something like this because the father should not ask for obeyance in this matter in the first place.

Children should open their parents no matter what, I think the gay son thinks he doesn't have to because of his life style choice.

I am not a father so it will be very hard for me to comment much on this. Just my opinion, i think fathers should not judge their sons if they wanted to be on a softer side. Fathers should support their sons. I think if fathers would only push the son to be straight, the son will only rebel and even ran out.

I will never judge anybody for being gay. And to the father who was disappointed because his son is, I would not blame him too nor misjudge him for not understanding. If we put ourselves into the shoes of the son, we would also be having a difficult time in deciding to follow what we want or obey our dad out of respect. If we put ourselves in the shoes of the father, we would also be disappointed in having such a son. So it's really difficult to judge who made wrong in this situation, because actually nobody is wrong. WE just have to respect each other for our own choices in life as long as the choice is within the bounds of law.

as parents should be educating children to become better not to do bad things. because the children at the time was now difficult to set and many are against the elderly. therefore we should be able to keep the family name with the regulations made in a family.

Hi asliah! I think that the son should listen to his father. After all, he's still his father. Maybe this son is going through some changes and might feel this way but maybe in time to come, this feelings will go away.

Now this is a difficult question. If I am the son, I would just have obey my own father. But we can't blame the boy is bad too, cause maybe he's just having special attention to boys.