Street Children...

@shattered (1728)
Philippines
December 13, 2010 1:44am CST
Street Children have flocked the cities even natives such as the aetas can be seen making "music noise" everywhere. I have nothing against street children, in fact I have often spent time with some when I was in College as part of our organizations vocation, but recently I was really irritated by a one somewhere in the south. Before I go on I would just like to say that I never give money to street kids, I give individually paced biscuits like blue skies and sky flakes. When I stopped at an intersection as the traffic light turned red, a street kid came to the car and tapped on the window as asking for alms, as I had no biscuit to give I told him I had nothing to give. The kid turned around and bad mouthed me as if I had the obligation to give him money! I understand their situation but that does not entitle them to receive money or food from everyone. It does not entitle them to anything! Why do these people have a sense of entitlement just because they are poor? It is our obligation to feed them just because they do not want to work their butts of in a job they think they are overqualified for? Sorry about the rant, but what about you? Have you experienced anything like this?
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10 responses
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I had a little bit similar story, I also don't give money to them as I know they're not really the ones who get it but the syndicates who holds them or their parents...I was in college and near the grocery I bought my groceries from are street children, now everytime I passed there I had something to give them but there was one night that I didn't have dinner yet because I was too busy with my school work that I just took out from a fastfood restaurant, then I remembered I didn't have anymore shampoo, so I stopped by the grocery store and went home, but then the children saw me and asked for the food I was holding, I told them that it's for me and I haven't had my dinner yet, then one child grabbed the plastic I held, I was so angryI slapped the child's hands and told them that I'm not giving them anything anymore, and you know what? as I turned around they shouted after me "We wish you'll die!", that was really the last time I've ever given anything to street children...they're so rude and I think that if I continue to give them they'll just end up lazy...
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
It is common knowledge in our country that there are syndicate rings running "begging" in traffic areas, and that is one of the reasons I never give food. We agree on this one. I feel for you on your encounter, sometimes they just grab what they can, it seem like they believe that they should be entitled to anything they ask for just because they are less fortunate. They fail to realize that we are working hard for our money. Its as if they think e are ATM machines!
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
they are eating ice cream - badjao children
Unfortunately, that's why you shouldn't give in the first place. they never know when to stop until they start asking for some one else. remember, most of these kids lacked education, so they don't know what is for theirs and for yours alone. therefore too, that they lack gratitude only to get what they want just to survive.you can't expect them to be good little angels when they are hungry UNFORTUNATELY, the Badjao's are one of the First Settlers and Original Tribes of the Filipinos. I am also DEEPLY hurt of how are they are being treated as well.they are being thrown away from their lands or not giving much importance or not all by the Government.
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• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I really want to help them but in my case I don't think anything could help them but education...but as LK has said the government are not taking notice of them...
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
i only give those disable person who can be able to find food or money for themselves especially those very old beggar.i am not used to give those street children because they have parents of if they don't have then there charities who can turned them on but sad to say that many of them escaped from those charities because they more like to be in the street because they can do what they want, free to go anywhere and just beg for their food.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
I see your point. It would help ease the suffering they get from the ringleaders at the very least.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
I agree with you jornz, it is sad that they are running away from the real help they are afforded and trying to live a "free" life with no future. With respect to the disabled I also feel for them but giving money to them may not be good for them as well as they may be used by syndicates. Its always best to teach them how to fish as the saying goes but between giving money and food? I think food is the better alternative.
@jornz87 (139)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
me, i gave them money even the fact that they may used by syndicate as a help that even they are one who feed those great damn syndicate but as a help to those beggar not be battered by those damn syndicate who took advantage & used those beggar to feed them.
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• Philippines
13 Dec 10
giving penny - must avoid this. food probably
Hello Shattered, In our Subdivision, we had experience of street children hanging in the side walks, making a mess of their homes here. even peeing and pooping in our front yard. After seeing them that, I decided to sent the complaint to the Barangay more than twice until they have been taken out. after a few days, i don't see them any more. I used to give money to them but after it was advised not to, i just stop. more over when i realized in the news that syndicates or lazy parents are the ones benefiting from this, i just stop giving to them. instead, i drop money to charity box and coin banks instead There has been more Badjao Squatters in the Highways over the last few years, we don't where are they coming from. as if they think the cities are filled with rich people.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
Wow that is such an awful experience. But really it happens quite often here, when they know you will give them consistently they will always hang around you, its like they have quota or something! Worse, they call their friends and tell them that you are giving money and then all the kids in the neighborhood are knocking on your car. It really is a sad sight to see the natives begging. The city is not a good place for them.
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
Not recently, but I know it happens - in fact, it has happened to some friends of mine. I do not want to sound snobbish, but I blame their parents or their guardians or even the local government who let them roam the city. Also, the kids now are so disrespectful, they somehow think that its your duty to give them money. Like you I also give food when a street kid approaches me - never money. That kid probably inhaled rugby or is high that's why he had the guts to bad mouth you.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
I hope that it was just bad attitude over rugby use, at least the former has no lasting effect on his brain cells and can easily be rehabilitated! It is indeed a fault of the local governments they have laws that are not being implemented and thats why these syndicates proliferate. Off Topic - Hubert was just acquitted. That was a good decision by the Supreme Court.
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
We have enough Laws to control if not eliminate this problem concerning the street children but the problem is lack of enforcement and implementation. These children are the product of negligence, domestic violence and forced labor by either own parents or syndicates. It is really difficult to point which among them is run by syndicate or just by themselves to survive. The thought of you giving them food instead of money is a good gesture whether which group they belong for you will be assured they make use of it for them to survive. However, whichever way encourages them to come back again day after day. I can't question the generosity of others as we are talking here is our young homeless fellow and I, myself shows compassion on their poor conditions and sometimes give them money but when we think of it in a logical way aren't we just teaching them not to catch fish on their own? or if not them their handlers? I still can't help but to ask what we gonna do for these homeless children who are begging for people's money and food as their way of living because they are indeed helpless? If no one will give them something to eat how can they ever survive? How many of us can show real concern by handing over them to the right authorities? Who will bother to do such thing if even us got no time for our own children or always in a hurry back and forth for our jobs and other stuff? Apt Law + Solid Implementation + Enough Services (shelter, education, food, health, clothing) = Formula We all longing for this formula but the question is when this will be going to materialize? The good thing about this site and the kinds creates awareness of almost everything as we read different experiences of our fellow posters that makes this site above among others. But I think and believe Mylot can offer something more by participating at some advocacy, helping the street children for that matter.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
I agree with you there are enough laws which would address these issues however, for one reason or another the authorities fail to administer the law. You also have a point that we are reinforcing their "bad habit" whether we give them money or food. It is a sad thing indeed that we always have to be guarded even when we try to help others. I do hope we find the proper formula to help the less fortunate and the leaders who are strong willed enough to administer the same.
@angeline1 (144)
13 Dec 10
Well, I feel sorry for them.You sometimes give them something not all the time you passed along the streets.They are run by sindicates.Be careful.I'm sometimes afraid they might steal something from you if you put your hand outside.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
Yeah they have a tendency to do that. Specially those that have been in the streets too long.
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I have seen them along the streets, and even in the port areas. Now that its Christmas time, they seem to be everywhere. I really do not understand this people. They are in good health but they all rely in begging. I do not really give them money since I know that if I give them, I just encourage them more to beg. I think they should find a way to earn money other than begging.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
That is true they are healthy and clearly able, those that have any disability or life challenges are not included in this thread for the most part. But I agree with you they should really not rely on begging! Whats worse is that they seem to feel like they are entitled to beg! And we owe them for their begging!
@simonelee (2715)
• China
13 Dec 10
Natives often visit the city when Christmas is coming, its a tradition to them and we already used to it. I do understand your situation cause i dislike their acts. I do not tolerate them. I don't give food nor money especially those who beg on streets. I hate it when they touch me, pull my shirt or stain it while walking. I do much appreciate those who don't approach me. Back to your case, glad that child didn't scratch your car or spit on your window.
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
That was the only good thing about it! And he was not starved at all he looked very healthy and lively for a street kid! They really should learn manners at the very least, that would make people more compassionate towards them and would make one really want to give anything. But no, they really just have to be obnoxious!
• Indonesia
14 Dec 10
Anytime I look at them, I just wanna cry. How come they be here. Where is the people, the rich, the major? Are they all going blind? Their fate is so sad. I can do nothing for them but hope. I wanna someday help them out of that place. No hope for government aid, they just promise and promise. That's my dream. Doing is better than speaking. They need actual help.
@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
14 Dec 10
It really is not a good sight. And is a good vision to help them. I just hope you can make it happen
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I understand how you feel , yes we all have nothing against them but I do have something against parents who continuosly and senselessly make children and leave or abandon them to tend for themselves, I have something against as we all heard in the news, the syndicate that facilitates bringing them here for the purpose of using them. We understand and pity them, but there should also be an order and a rule of law that's why government agencies are in place, yes we all understand the thin line that separates everything I had mentioned. Unless a Nation learns to rise up against challenges such as this , it's doomed to remain what it is , poor
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@shattered (1728)
• Philippines
13 Dec 10
I agree that government should do something. I do think that it is trying, its just that they are doing it the wrong way. When I see street kids specially those children carrying babies I just feel really awful! What in the world were their parents thinking? I do hope we are not doomed to poverty as a nation. I hope we as a people would help our country rise out of it.