Men Vs. Women

Philippines
December 16, 2010 4:19am CST
Who do usually cheat it their relationship? I have experienced being cheated once, and even I caught him he still did make an excuse. So now, Im wondering are men the only one who cheats? Or the women too?
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 Dec 10
Both men and women can be equal at cheating. No gender is better or worse at this. Reasons for cheating are not always easy to see. for some, there may be no apparent reason at all.Men can be cheaters and so can women. it just depends on the circumstances of your relationship and your life.
16 Dec 10
Perhaps, men are more easily distracted in a relationship. But please just do not use this proportion to judge all men. We could refer to this to make some thoughts.
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
But there is always number of percentage greater.And the fact is,men are more cheater than woman.Just in general, even to conduct a survey.For my own opinion, man easily to get attract and men are more flirty.And they, want to take all kind of fishes in the sea.Just to satisfy their pleasure and for being a man.As they always reasoning.Because they are man.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
18 Dec 10
Percentage have nothing to do its personal view here ;) Ye percentage can say things but u cant count all the people in the world to find who cheat more . Hey luffy dont be dustracted :P
• Philippines
16 Dec 10
Greetings, If you read a post of mine before, you might know that I cheated on my girl friend before and I realized that she was cheating on me too. People cheat because they are not contented. If you eat the same meal for 7 straight days, wouldn't you get sick of eating it? If you don't, that means that is a favorite. If you do, you would find other kinds of food to eat. Same goes with relationships. That is why the term "monthsary" even was made because, relationships don't last as long as they used to anymore. We can't say everybody is contented, if everyone was contented, why are people buying IPads?
16 Dec 10
yeah, your words make great sense. but what about the loyalty and promises ever made in a relationship? You can say that we needn't always make promises or promises sometimes can be lost. As humans who have so many desires, we are really not so easy to get contented. But I think there should be something we insist and keep. Sometimes i will change my taste, but i will do my best to be honest to my love one.
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
Im not taking sides here and I never cheated on my love. I believe that if you love that person, no other men will matter to you except for him. He may not trust me because of what I have done in the past but I will forever love him because of the things he have done to me even though we quarrel a lot. Love is something that you cannot find everywhere, and even if it does find the person that we love is hard. We pick them not by choice but in some they do.
• Philippines
18 Dec 10
Even how we love that person so much we still capable of hurting them.It's because that's the nature of love.If there is love,there's also a pain.We are not perfect and we can't appreciate and called it love, if we didn't get hurt and feel the pain.Love is like a rose, it's lovely, scarlet , beautiful and when you look it, you feel happiness but don't forget rose has thorns.And it hurts, so love is hurts.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
16 Dec 10
Hi dear, If you make a comparison, I will say it is man by proportion. Because due to the circumstantial properties, man are easily involve into many cases as a trial or the like. A girl is getting involved in an affair is in a slow process and she observe on both sides, while men are no so bothered. Which means, the possibility of cheat always in a higher degree with man if compare with a women. This is not from my experience, but from the trend what sees around. Thank-s
• India
20 Dec 10
Hi dear, In this cases initially we all concentrate mostly on our own cases. You completed the full episode with 2-3 sentences and I am completely agree with you. Man looks for what they want to satisfy their desires. It is a real fact and you should have to realize initially. Many girls understand or realize the same fact very late or after gone through a journey with him so far. I think there is still time for you and relax. All are not alike and you will get better choices and try to learn something from the experiences. Thank-s
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
16 Dec 10
Both men and women cheat. The actual figure I think cannot be estimated and so the ratio between number of male and female cheaters cannot be calculated. I think it depends on the person and on the gender.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
18 Dec 10
What about : I'm wondering are women the only one who cheats ... or the men cheats too ? :) Really its up to the person to being woman or men so it have nothing to do with gander . The one that cheat is the ... stupid one ;) Its not only about the cheating its the all thing cheating leads after it :)