first love never dies!! is it true?
By fgb_fritz
@fgb_fritz (278)
Philippines
December 16, 2010 5:47pm CST
i don't believe this! simply because i never been in love, i have crushes, actually they are many. but i think i will be wise if ever.
do u believe this?
3 responses
@jash1985 (51)
• Canada
17 Dec 10
No, it is not true at all. Love can end for sure. When people end their relations, they think that it was not true love that is why it ended. It is just a belief system they are carrying in their minds. Today, disasters are going on in people's lives because of their relations because they are not able to end their relations so easily in which they are not happy.
@jash1985 (51)
• Canada
17 Dec 10
you are talking about loving one person at a time but I think it is not possible to love just a single person at one time. If you love one person, what about others? Do you hate others? Do you remain neutral for others? No, that is not the thing, if you love one person then according to social conditioning, you cannot show love to others. You suppress it inside yourself other wise it is always there inside.
@HannahChristia (14)
• Philippines
17 Dec 10
well, i was talking about romantic relationship with a partner, but you're right, there are plenty of people to love and are always ready to give a shoulder and/or a hand feel free to love even if it isn't romantic. love life!
thanks :)
@getbiswa2000 (5545)
• India
17 Dec 10
We are talking about the memory here, right? There is a mechanism in our mind that enables us to forget bitter things. Though in stricter sense of words, nothing is actually forgotten, but things may subside from our conscious to subconscious mind and then stay there for years, or may be for life time, and never appearing before conscious memory ever again. The first time of anything is generally, striking, or shocking or extremely pleasing etc. Such an incident is easy to remember because of its striking features. Since you never actually been in love you wouldn't understand the feeling. In a reciprocated love you feel extreme mental pleasure and satisfaction. Moreover if this love is for the first time, it has enough information to be kept in our memory for long. But if it has some bitter feelings associated with it, your mind may attempt to repress the memory and let it subside from the conscious mind. So you may forget the details of it, but that's because you wanted to forget it.
but nice and truth also there. 
