Do being a...

Philippines
December 17, 2010 10:22am CST
Do being a virgin still matters to your partner? I just want answer for that because it bothers me to know some girls who gave their virginity to guys who doesnt even want them as a partner.
3 responses
@ranelyn (30)
22 Dec 10
well for me i think when the guy really loves the girl it doesnt matter if she stil a virgin or not what matter most is your love from each other not you only like her coz shes still virgin..
@leeh2229 (85)
• Philippines
20 Dec 10
I don't have a partner right now.. but most of my guy friends when we are much younger it is still important to them... when we mature and have wide understanding most of them said that it doesn't matter! It is a bonus, most specially this days but if they fell inlove with someone who is not, it does not matter! Cause according to them it is not the basis of their LOVE and relationship... what much important is the compatibility, companionship, acceptance and trust. :D
@mayrah (1144)
• United States
18 Dec 10
I just have asked some people about virginity issue and most of them told it's not a big issue anymore as long as they love the person so much because it's the depth of love that matters rather than pride. Anyway most guys are not virgin after college days. But personally I don't have problem about this issue since I am still a virgin at this point in time but I am not judgmental to other people's opinion as they have their own reason why they gave their virginity before marriage. My partner told me it's not really a matter to him but since I am still a virgin it's a bonus for hm.