Why Divorce become a Trend??

Indonesia
December 21, 2010 2:15am CST
In the eastern countries, divorce is still a taboo subject, but why lately become a trend, Why they're not thinking, in fact the victims are their children. How do you think?
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7 responses
• South Korea
21 Dec 10
I understand how children suffered becuase of the parents misunderstandings or problems.. however a two couple who chose to do their vows and later on realize that they are not compatible for each other.. cannot really continue the life.. sometimes they are just things that doesnt match..in my opinion:) and everybody deserves to be happy life,life is to short to live it with pain and sorrow... and for the children Im sure theres a way parents can explain whats happening.. let them somehow understand... and it doesnt mean it changes everything... you will stay as their mom or father:) others think it might be selfishness becuase they might see it considering yourself first rather than your children.. but if you already tired to do everything for the sake of the family and still doesnt work.. how can you take care of your children and how can you show them what real love is..if you yourself is not happy?
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
The couple must think, sacrifice and realize the bad effect of such action to their children. Ok both are pushed at the edge of dispute and no solution aside for divorce what do you think children are easy to accept such situation, all the failure are in the hands of the children, even it is a cause of children future failure also... So parents should think their first bow, their agreement, must have scrificial self intention.... for the sake of children... see you around
• South Korea
21 Dec 10
well im not really in favored of divorce too..and my religion is against in it too.. its just that I can understand others who been through it.. and of course it depends on the case:) of course try to save it first..but some cases cases that involves physical thing when a couple fight is just so wrong..
• South Korea
21 Dec 10
what I mean in physical thing is harm:)
@youless (112195)
• Guangzhou, China
23 Dec 10
It is sad that when the couples divorce, the most hurtful people are their children. I think if it is not necessary, they should try to do something to save their marriage. The children are innocent. When their parents divorce, they will feel guilty and depressed and it may have an effect on their whole lives. As to why the divorce increased? I think probably this is because women become much more independent today. They can have a work and they can earn by themselves. Not all of them want to be housewives. And they have better education than before. And sometimes when they pay attention to their work, they will ignore their families and this will create a crisis. Today people pay more attention to themselves and when there is an argument, they don't know how to give in. This will be harmful for the marriage. The couples need to be considerate and understanding for each other. I love China
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
21 Dec 10
Dear friend, In our place where I live family courts are increasing with lots of cases. Even the law and rules do favor only one side without even looking to the justice part. The rich people can buy law accordingly. Divorces are increasing, more children are becoming victims. Even at times lawyers see this as a business rather than a profession making the life of a family into mess. I feel more justifiable law and order could make a change in this in society.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
21 Dec 10
At anywhere in this world, I think, there is no spouse in a marital relationship who wants a divorce. If you think divorce this time become a trend, it is not independent of the celebrity divorce news contained in the news infotaiment
@DoctorDidi (7018)
• India
21 Dec 10
Now a days,divorce has become a trend and this too mostly among educated people. The most important reason behind it, I think, is misunderstanding and lack of confidence in the spouse and this is aggravated by intolerance.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Dec 10
Its not trend but lack of understanding and tolerance and mostly don't know the power of forgiveness. All those marriages in which materialistic things are involve the end up in the shape of divorce. There should be love between both partners and must know the power of forgiveness.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
21 Dec 10
Hi friend, may be some are thinking like that and they are thinking that divorce is the last and ultimate solution about the married dispute. But if the couple seen the bad effect to their children I think they will have second thought... see you around