Loving Someone - Age Matters?

@arunmails (3011)
India
December 21, 2010 11:42pm CST
[b]This is one of the sensitive issue nowadays. Mostly, youngsters started to love someone at the age of about 14 or 15 itself. Days passed by, they separated due to various opinion between them towards future. Quick love & more quick in separation. What do you think about this friends. Does age matters to love someone? or they need to get some maturity towards life and love to love someone or what?[/b]
7 responses
@meenneixz (668)
• Philippines
23 Dec 10
Hi, i think there is no question of loving at a young age, but settling down at a young age is a bit complicated. We must think of what would be our future first if we will marry at that young, unless if you are born with golden spoon.
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
Golden spoon or silver spoon doesn't matters, but maturity matters a lot.
@sriram19 (111)
• India
22 Dec 10
Yes age does matter in love....because when you fall in love with someone at the age of 14-15, you are seriously not in love, that is just pure attraction. Your mind is all about wanting to explore the unseen and unknown outcomes, and after sometime you get to know that you seriously are not interested in that person. A person seriously starts loving someone, only after he gets mature enough.
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
Love comes with maturity.
@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Dec 10
I don't really think that age really matters in this situation. If you really love someone, then age shouldn't really matter. I don't really think that this should be an issue in this case.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
It means that you must be get mature enough
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 Dec 10
The love that you have at 14/15 is not the love that you will feel five years from then. Few relationships can withstand these changes on the side of both parties. You do read about relationships that start in early teens or even before and continue through thier lives, but these are few and far between.
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@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
Absolutely yes, savypat
• India
22 Dec 10
Well for me age doesnt matters. Its understanding and love between two person which actually make the difference. I dont think no harm if there is age gap but couple are committed towards each other.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
committed??
@mdorki (125)
• Germany
8 Jan 11
I think that age actually does matter. Though, I would say that it does not matter as much as having enough experiences and ability to learn from them. There are many adult people that fall in love and split up as fast as if they were teenagers. There also are some teenagers that fall in love when they are young and the love remains even after many years - though these cases are rare. That being said, age mostly matters, because very few youngsters can differentiate love from attraction. Age usually brings more experience and differentiating these two feelings then becomes easier.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
Yes, you are right.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
hi, in our generation, age doesn't matter to us, even the space is 10 years we don't care about it. if you really love the person, you dont care about the age, the looks, and you will accept the bad quality of your love and mend it slowly.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
8 Jan 11
How will you know that a real love?