What is the key to a Long lasting relationship?

India
December 22, 2010 1:39am CST
We come across many relationships in our life. Some may be relations since your birth like blood relations while some we make up on our way. Love & Marriage are such relationships. But, what is the key to have an eternal relation? I do know that nothing is eternal.
4 responses
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
I don't think there is any 'key' to a long lasting relationship. I believe there is someone for each and every one of us out there. Of course, trust, respect and love comes into play in a lasting relationship but that is pretty much a given. Plus, if your partner is not the one for you, she won't follow those three values even if you tell her.
• India
22 Dec 10
Ya that is so true.Trust and love go hand in hand. Respect comes out of love. If you believe your partner truly that could take us a long way ahead. :D
• Philippines
22 Dec 10
Yes, it could go a long way.
• India
27 Jan 12
Well it depends on the person too, right ?
• Indonesia
23 Dec 10
When going through a relationship with someone, of course you want everything smooth and happy ending. However, there are customs and attitudes that unconsciously it will end the love affair that you wake up with the him. There are some who should be the attitude for lasting relationships: * Often disappointed by the gift Despite not having good taste on jewelry or fashion developments, she still gives gifts. relationship, thank for his efforts to please you. It made him feel more appreciated than a frown or look of your criticism of the gift from him. * A focus on fault The right guy does not mean he should always look perfect. Learn to love the things that do not like him you love him more. * Change activity for the sake of her You may be tempted to spend more time with him, especially at the beginning of the relationship. Still maintaining their own identity to make him understand that you trust him and give him freedom. In his eyes, you become a more attractive woman. * Stop fascinating look As relationships move into a more serious stage, you lose the sense of both intimacy flavor. Change this habit, try to be fascinated in front of the him. * Often discuss relations After passing through casual dating stage and walked to the serious, you may be tempted to discuss the continuation of the relationship you more. Communication really makes you open with each other, but be sure also to keep life light and fun runs. In time, you will get what you want.
• India
27 Jan 12
Well that is a good one. Thanks a lot for taking time to reply. Appreciate it.
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• India
23 Dec 10
I think I have seen this discussions in different ways in Mylot. I have been with Mylot for around 2 years. It is a long time. Anyway, when it comes to relationships, I believe that it is important to be able to take things easily and have an open mind. The real love between two people is very important. It is also necessary to be not demanding and try to accept and respect the other person's views.
• India
27 Jan 12
Well a relation is a relation no matter how many years pass by. Generations keep on changing. So you will find the same question over and over again. And yes an open mind is a good way to keep your relation strong.
• United States
23 Dec 10
Love is eternal, we are not.
• India
27 Jan 12
Well then we can love till Eternity.